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Ashwini
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baapro Deeps Ê evhZ\yaa sagaL\yaa ATIMtUna trlaa mhNajao tuJaa navara ekdma jabardst idsatÜya. :-)

Yogibear
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Lalu: thx, I was asking out of curiosity.

Upas
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:56 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

kÜNaI Dr. ikXaÜr XaaMtabaaš kaLo (aMca ho pustk vaacalaya ka.. maI marazIt vaacalaM hÜtM.. AgadI Avaak vhayalaa hÜtM..
Dr. ikXaÜr
ivaYayaaMtraba_la maafI..

Arch
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

laalaUÊ tU Aašca maahorca AaDnaava laavatosa ka vaiDlaaMcaÆ

deeps laUMgaI naosaNaara nakÜ. AgadI maaJaIca baihNakI ga tU.

pNa maga pMjaabaI D/osavaalaI maulagaI nakÜ mhTla tr tuJaI ka hrktÆ

Deepanjali
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:31 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

‘pMjaabaI dress ikMvaa saaDI vaalaI maulagaI nakÜ’Ê laa maaJaI kXaalaa hrkt :-)²
]laT kÜNaI mini skirt GaalaNaarI maulagaI ca hvaI AXaI AT zovalaI trI kahI gaOr vaaTNaar naahI:-).



Ashishchaskar
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:41 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

P.D. ikMvaa saaDI vaalaI maulagaI nakÜ AaiNa mini skirt vaalaI maulagaIca hvaIÊ yaa dÜnhI ATIMmaagacyaa maanaisaktotlaa gauNaa%mak Ôrk spYT k$ Xakala kaya Æ

Eliza
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:43 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

aare kay hyaa BBcha bhaja kelay...'mula/mulinna reject karayache 100 upaay' asa vishay nahiye eethe..aani 'GTP' pan nahiye...vishayala dharun bolayacha asel tar lihaa aata.

Mvelanka
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

nakar imaLNao ikMvaa naapsaMtI kLNao ho vaašT ikMvaa kmaIpNaacao ka samajalao jaatoÆ

maI ho AaQaI ivacaarlao hÜtoÊ kuzo gaolao kuNaasa za}k. caukUna duráyaa flakavar gaolao Asaola tr toqaUna to ]Dvaavao.

Deepanjali
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ivaYayaaMtr Jaalyaa ba_la sorry ²
caasakrÊ
kuzlyaahI karNaa maQaIla maanaisakta ekca ʑ psaMd ApnaI ApnaI’.
[qao EaQda nao ilaihlao hÜto kI itcyaa maO~INaIlaa saaDI naosaUna yaayalaa laavalaI KP laaÊ AXaI jabardstI krNyaa poxaa tumhalaa jyaa type caI maulagaI / maulagaa AavaDtÜ to AQaI maaiht k$na maga ca BaoTI Gyaa.

Manaswii
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 5:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

‘kcaro’ AaDnaavaacyaa eka maulaalaa maIhI nakar idlaa hÜta..

Eliza
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:04 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

MVL, nakaar kiva napasant he (majhyadrushtine) kamipanache nahi. at the same time tumhi konala kase nahi mhantay says a lot abt who u r. majhi co-worker kelli won't date anybody with a PhD karan kay tar mhane they are too geeky. yikes. I married a PhD student who is a dentist and will soon have another dental degree frm US apart frm his PhD. I will also start my PhD next fall. According to kelli me aani majha navara 'yikes' aahot. aata me he tumahala sangitala tar tumhi kay mhanal...vedich aahe he kelii, changale PhD navara baaiko aahet tyanna hee kahihi boltey(at the same time u may also agree with her depending on 'your' views).

similarly, tumhi kontya karanavaun konala reject kartay is a statement abt urself not anybody else. u know urself best aani by saying 'no' what u r saying is i am not compitale with this person and not that this person is bad.

Boli
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tumhi kontya karanavaun konala reject kartay is a statement abt urself not anybody else >>>
very true, Eliza.


Upas
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:17 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AaiNa ksaM reject krtaya that also tells alot :-) pNa ho barocada cacaU-na Jaalaya [qao i guess ²

Deepanjali
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:21 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa naahI vaaTtÊ Arranged marriage maQao kÜNaIhI kÜNa%yaahI karNaa va$na nakar idlao tr %yaat kmaIpNaaÊ du : K kÜNaalaa vaaTt Asaola mhNaUna.
Arranged marriage maQao bahutokda ijaqao emotionaly involvement nasato AXaa vya>Inao naahI mhNalao tr kÜNaalaa ka frk pDavaaÆ
kÜNaacyaa Apoxaa kaya Asaavyaat tÜ vaOya>Ik p`Xna Aaho f> KP krNyaa AaQaI Apoxaa clear AsatIla tr CÜT\yaa CÜT\yaa karNaaM va$na ‘nakar’ Ê waste of time ikMvaa hÜNaarI icaDicaD TLU Xakto.



Mvelanka
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maga ijaqao AaQaI Apoxaa kLlaolyaa AsatIla AaiNa %yaa ekmaokaMXaI na jauLNaaáyaa AsatIla tr itqao var vaQau prIxaa hÜNyaacaa p`snaca naahI. ijaqao varvaQau prIxaocaa p`saMga yaotÜÊ ikMvaa jaÜDIdaraivaYayaIcyaa Apoxaa varvaQauprIxaotUna samajaNyaacaa p`saMga yaotÜÊ %yaa p`saMgaa naMtr nakarÊ naapsaMtI AalaI tr tÜ kalaapvyaya ksaaÆ maga icaDcaID kaÆ....... Asaa maaJaa rÜK hÜta.... AaiNa Aaho.

Eliza
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:37 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

'judgemental' decisions have always hurt me. mhanje me aadhi lihilyaa pramane eka mulachyaa family ne me mulala parat bhetayachay mhanun 'demand' keli hyavarun me 'forward' aahe tharavun nakar dila. I was more angry than hurt though. mane julali asot na nasot asha tarhache 'judgement' pass karana nakkich dukhavanaara aahe. at the same time good ol' 'aapala yog disat nahi' he nakkich jasta barobar vatata.

Mvelanka
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 6:47 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maI eoklaolaI ek AXaI gaÜYT Aaho kI maulagaa maulaIlaa mhNaalaa kI tU idsaayalaa farca caaMgalaI AahosaÊ malaa [tkI caaMgalaI idsaNaarI baayakÜ nakÜ.

Deepanjali
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 7:00 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

vaaTlao Asaola %yaa maulaalaa jaÜDI KUp ivajaÜD [satoya mhNaUnaÊ tÜ kdaicat Ait saamaanya Asaola idsaayalaa AaiNa tI extra ordinary ²

Eliza
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 7:07 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

photo pahilaa hota kaa tyane? email, photo, phone saarkhe resources astanna ha prasang yena mhanje kay mhanaav.

Mvelanka
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 7:13 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

hvaosao / nakÜsao AsaNao AaiNa caaMgalao / vaašT AsaNao (a dÜna gaÜYTIMcaa ekmaokaMXaI saMbaMQa naahI. tXaI gallt kolaI tr duÁK saMtap vagaOro hÜtÜÊ Asao vaaTto

Eliza
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 7:21 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

kabool MVL, pan tumhi arranged marriage saathi jevha ek-mekanna bhetala tevha tumchyaa var 'judgement' pass karayacha adhikaar milalay asa gairsamaj lokanna hoto aani tyatun mug pudhe sagala hota.

Dhondopant
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 7:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

... pNa Garat lauMgaI naosaNaara maulagaa nakÜ... hI AT jara Aitca Aaho...

Mvelanka
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 7:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

hÜkara nakara kDo bagaNyaacaa dRYTIkÜna eka Aqaa-nao ‘pxapatI’ AahoÊ Asao malaa vaaTto. jaoMvha nakar hÜtÜÊ toMvha ivavaahmaolanaacaI p`iËyaa puZo caalaU rahtoÊ AaiNa ekmaokaMnaa hÜkar yaotaca qaaMbato. maga %yaavaoLI tÜ hÜkar ha hI ek ‘inavaaDa’ca AsatÜ. maga tÜ trI yaÜgya ksaa kayaÆ eka izkaNaI ‘jauLlyaavar’doKIla p`iËyaa puZo caalaayalaa nakÜ ka.......jaast caaMgalao jauLNaaro saMbaMQa puZo AsaU XaktIlaÊ naahI kaÆ

Deepanjali
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 8:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

QaÜMDÜpMtÊ
Asato p`%yaokacaI AavaD ²
kÜNaalaa kaya Important vaaTto jyaacaa %yaacaa p`Xna Aaho :-).

Upas
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 8:06 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

vaolaNakrÊ Qyaoya tumhI kaya zrvalaya (avar AvalaMbaUna.. mhNajao jauLNaaro hvao kI AiQak jauLNaaro kI AiQak AiQak jauLNaaro.. AaiNa kuzo qaaMbaayacaM ho kLlaM kI maga sagaL\yaat XaovaTI puZcaM pa}la.. %yaamauLo %yaat pxapatI AsaM kahI naahI AsaM malaa trI vaaTtM² karNa ekIkDUna hÜkar yao}na sauwa AjaUna ek dÜna sqaLo baGauyaa Gaaš naahI Asao phayalaa imaLtoca kI AaiNa vyavahaya- sauwa Aahoca to²

Ashishchaskar
Friday, July 23, 2004 - 8:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

jaoMvha ha ek baajaar Aaho AaiNa AapNa yaa baajaaratUnaca eKadI gaÜYT ]calaNaar AahÜt ho zrlao kI caaMgalao vaašTacaa p`Xna yaotÜca kuzo Æ sagaLoca Aapaplyaa dRYTIkÜnaatUna barÜbar Asatat. tumhalaa pTlao naahI trI ²
jasao kI TV Gaotanaa Ê Aajacyaa kaLat kuNaI B&W AaiNa AazMAca channel Asalaolaa TV maaigatlaa tr tI %yaacaI ‘garja’ JaalaI. tÜ caUk ksaa AsaU XaktÜ Æ
tsaoca lagnaacyaa baajaaracao Aaho. Aapaplyaa garjaa zrvaUna p`%yaok jaNa Aalaolaa AsatÜ. kÜNa caUk ikMvaa kÜNa barÜbar ho kXaacyaa AaQaaravar zrvaNaar Æ

Karadkar
Monday, July 26, 2004 - 2:58 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

something related to the topic

http://maharashtratimes.indiatimes.com/articleshow/787183.cms

Dhondopant
Monday, July 26, 2004 - 12:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

dIpaMjalaI...

maulaakDcyaanaI jar gaaNao mhnaayalaa saaMigatlao tr %yaaMcaI AavaD²²²...

Deepanjali
Monday, July 26, 2004 - 2:10 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AhÜ QaÜMDÜpMtÊ
maaJao post naIT phaÊ gaaNao mhNaayalaa saaMgaNaaáyaaM poxaa maI gaaNao mhNaNaaáyaa maulaI caI kmaala Aaho Asao mhNalao.
maulaa kDcyaaMcaI AavaD kahIhI AsaÜÊ pNa EaQda cyaa post va$na Asao idsalao kI to ‘gaaNao mhNaayalaa laavaNao’ maulaIlaa AavaDlao navhtoÊ mhNaUna mhMTlao kI Qanya %yaa maulaIcaI ijalaa AavaDt nasatanaa doKIla kovaL %yaa maaNasaaMcyaa saaMgaNyaa va$na gaaNao mhMTlao ²²

Dhondopant
Monday, July 26, 2004 - 3:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AsatÜ kahIcaa svaBaava iBaDst²²..


Shraddhak
Tuesday, July 27, 2004 - 5:17 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

DJ Ê to gaaNaMvaalaM pÜsT maaJaM naahIÊ i guess orchid caM Aaho. kI orchid caM naava pNa Eawa AahoÆ :-)
jokes apart .... AaiNa ek p`Xna² KP caa " kaya-Ëma " kXaalaa hvaaÆ mhNajao Aaš vaDIlaÊ AjaUna kÜNaI naatovaašk jamaUna vagaOro... sauÉvaatIlaa Ô> maulaalaa AaiNa maulaIlaa BaoTta yao} nayao kaÆ karNa Aaja kala Ô> %yaa dÜGaaMcyaa decision var sagaLM AvalaMbaUna AsatM... AaiNa %yaa dÜGaMnaa jar zIk vaaTlaM tr puZo baakIcyaa traditional gaÜYTI mhNajao pi~ka pahNao vagaOro ³krayacyaa AsatIla tr²´ krta yao} Xaktat. naahItr maga AaQaI (a xaullak gaÜYTI tpasaNyaat vaoL jaatÜ AaiNa %yaa ksaÜT\yaaMtUna par pDlaolaa maulagaa / maulagaI maulaIlaa / maulaalaa psaMt pDt naahI.
maaJyaa maOi~NaIlaa ek AitXaya caaMgalaa ³doKNaaÊ excellent salary AsalaolaaÊ pi~ka jauLt hÜtIÊ etc. etc. ´ maulagaa saaMgaUna Aalaa hÜta... pNa itnao tÜ AitXaya kmaI baÜlatÜ mhNaUna nakar idlaa. karNa tI KUp baÜlakI Aaho. AaiNa to dÜGaM BaoTlao tovha ihnao %yaalaa baÜlatM krayacaa baraca p`ya%na kolaa pNa tÜ XaaMtca² itnao %yaalaa reject kolyaanaMtr itcao tmaama naatovaašk hLhLlao hÜto. evaZM caaMgalaM sqaL hatUna GaalavalaM mhNaUna....
same AnauBava malaahI Aalaolaa Aaho. 2001 maQyao maI engg pUNa- kolaM tovha campus job caI joining date slow down mauLo AinaiXcat JaalaolaI. maI saha maihnao Garat kahIhI na krta basaUna hÜto. tovha Aalaolyaa eka sqaLalaa ³doKNaaÊ Amaoirkot sqaaiyakÊ etc. etc. ´ maI daKvaUna Gyaayalaasauwa " ekvaIsa ho lagnaacaM vaya naahI " ho karNa saaMgaUna nakar idlaa hÜta. yaavar malaa " svat : laa eoXvayaa- raya samajato kI kayaÊ evaZ\yaa caaMgalyaa sqaLalaa nakar VayalaaÆ " " trI barM GarIca basalaIyaÊ lagna k$na GaotlaM tr kaya ibaGaDlaMÆ " Asao Xaoro naatovaaškaMkDUna imaLalao hÜto... I got really hurt because of that, but my parents told everybody who taunted me "it doesn't matter if our daughter is not Aishwarya rai or alike... she has right to take decisions about her life and it she says no to all this stuff now we are not going to force her for that.






Upas
Tuesday, July 27, 2004 - 7:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Well said Ea..
malaahI AsaMca vaaTt Aalaya.. maulagaI / maulagaa baGaNyaacaa kaya-Ëma ksaa Asaavaa (apoxaa maulagaI maulagaa baGaNyaacaa * kaya-Ëma * Asaavaa kaÊ mhNajao AgadI sahkuTuMba kaMdopÜho cavaInao Kata yaoNyaapo@Xaa baahor so called date ikMvaa dinner laa jaaNao yaÜgya navho kaya.. %yaamauLo dÜGaaMnaahI manamaÜkL baÜlata yaošlaca AaiNa maga puZcaI baÜlaNaI JaalaIca ( AavaXyakta vaaTlyaasa AjaUna ek dÜna BaoTIMnaMtr ) tr tI baOzk (a sva$pat hÜtIla AaiNa kaMdo pÜho Asa kahI iXallak rhaNaarca naahI.. AsaÜÊ vaaTlaM mhNaUna ilahIlaM...

Eliza
Tuesday, July 27, 2004 - 9:18 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

mala tumha doghancha post kitihi patala tarihi ha prakaar agadich yogya nahiye asa nahi. Mulgi *or mulga) baghayala sahakutumb baghayala yena he jari mostly uncomfortable asala tarihi mulichya drushtine nakkich safe aahe. familieschi ekmekanshi kahihi interaction nasattan mula-mulilaa ekta baher jana mala tari patat nahi (no no I am not old fashioned) 'haa' karyakram honyaaadhi sadharan muliche vadil mula kade gelele astaaat kiva kadhi kadhi fakta patra vayvhaar jhalelaa asto. asa astanna mulachi aani tyachya kutumbachi faarch jujabi mahiti aste mulikade.

personally, I would be very very uncomfortable to go on a date/dinner with a stranger. if i didn't like the guy, will it be polite to leave the dinner halfway? or just not talk to him at all. (same is true for a boy) tech jar family asli tar he embarrassing situation nahi yenaar. Thode ek-mekanbarobar comfortable jhala ke mag bindhast ja dinner/date la. aai-vadilaanbarobar bhetalyaamule ek multi-level interaction hoeel. plus, familiescha atishay bahumulya margadarshan milel te vegalach.

Deepanjali
Tuesday, July 27, 2004 - 10:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Well Ê svaanauBavaa va$na malaa Asao vaaTto kI maulaaXaI ikMvaa %yaacyaa family laa BaoTNyaa AaQaI maulaanao AaiNa maulaInaI email ikMvaa phone va$na ekamaokaMXaI saMvaad saaQalaaÊ Xa@ya tovaZI maaihtIÊ future plans, hobbies, lifestyle,family backgrounds etc.. gaÜYTI share kolyaaÊ ek maokaMXaI AÜLK k$na GaotlaI tr So called phaNyaacyaa program laa formal, awkward,uncomfortable sva$p yaot naahI.
iXavaaya AaQaI AMdaja pNa Alaolaa AsatÜ Aaplyaalaa yaa proposal maQao iktI interest Aaho %yaacaa ²
ek maokaMba_la dÜGaohI convince hÜ]na maga KP program laa tyaar Jaalao AsatIla tr dÜGaaMnaahI interest AsatÜca maga:-)


Yogibear
Tuesday, July 27, 2004 - 11:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Deeps: With all due respect... Dont you think by the time you come to a point of meeting in situation you mentioned above there is a possibility of one person(girl/guy) getting involved!!! and eventually getting hurt if rejected after meeting personally!!!

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