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Rajju
Tuesday, June 14, 2005 - 10:30 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Sagalyana Maaza Namskar!!!

Lagna mhatal ki samor yete te don maananch milan maag te arrange aso wa love, lagna te lagna, Nahin kel tari changle kele tar uttam, jas jasi vela kaal badalat jato tas tase aapalya parampara aani drustikon badalat aahe, aadhi par-printiya, aanterjatiya etc vivah yaana virodh hota, paan aaplya marathi samajyat navin gostinch nehammich swagat hot gele. ekun kaay tar navya barobar junyatal changal hi aapan ghetal aahe aani aapapali pragati karat aalo aahe.
Maaza prashna thoda relationship var aahe. aaplya samajyat, arrange lagna tharavatana, mamachi mulgi, aatyacha mulga, chalto, maag durchya kakancha mulga ka chalat nahin?????
paristiti sangayachi zali tar, prayatna karte thodakya sanganyach. Doghe betale friend through, kalat ki same surname aahe, pan ekmekan baddal i mean families & village kahich maahin naahi, jase divas jatat tase doghanhi kalat ki doghe hi ekmekana purak aahe thodakyat fall in love, doghi hi gari sangatat, tevhan kalat ki te doghe ekach gavache, pan tisarya pithiche cosins aahet,
maag kaay, tyani lagna karave ki nahin?
Dohni gari kadkadun virodh aahe.

Ek chotasa prashna paan tyavar avalambun aahe kunacha tari mahatvacha nirnya.......


Chioo
Tuesday, June 14, 2005 - 10:56 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Kharach khoop avaghad prashn aahe.

Tuza pahila part mhanaje, mama-aatya yanchya mulat lagne hotat. Yachi karane tevhachya samajik sthiti hoti. Mulagi lagn houn geli ki, sambandh jast karun sana-sudilach yet. Tyat ti far lambachya gavala asali tar tesudha khoop kami. He sambandh rahavet mhanun parat ek-mekat lagne keli jayachi. Tasech manase ekada mahiti asalyane gharandajpana, sampattik sthiti ya tevhachya mahattvachya goshti parat padatalun baghavya lagayachya nahit. Hunda dene ha prakar jast asalyane mi tuzya muliala sun karato/karate tu mazya mulila kar ase mhanun tyatun upay nighayacha. Aani donhikade muli dilelya asalyane sasurvasachi shakyata kami. Ashi tyala barish karane hoti.

Kakanchya kinva mavashichya mulat lagn hot nasat. Karan mavashi hi aai sarakhi tar kaka he vadilansarakhe manale jatat. Purvi ekatr kutumb paddhati asalyane chulatbhavande ekatr vadhat. Sahajikch tyanchyat sakhkhya bhavandanche nate ase. Tyamule chulat bhavandanchyat lagn kele jat nahi.

Yala genetical karan mhanaje sarakhe genes asale tar kadhi kadhi vait genes prabal banu shakatat. Raktgat +ve/-ve asale tar mulat janmatha vikruti yeu shakate. Yasathi konatyahi natyat lagn na karane changale. Te mag aatya-mama-chulat konatehi nate asu de.

Aata tuzya prashnacha vichar kela tar tumachi tisari pidhi aahe. Mhanaje genetically kadachit dhoka jast asu shakato. Mi doctor nahi. Kahi medical related articles madhun he kalale aahe. Yavar konitari doctor fieldmadhalya lokani jast sangitale tar bare hoil. Jya kunala ase lagn karayache aahe te doctorna yabaddal bhetu shakatat. Jar kharach tyana ase vatat asel ki, aapan jivansathi banu shaku aani medically kahi problem nasel tar pudhe jayala harakat nahi. Khara yamadhe doghanchya aai-vadilancha khoop virodh nakki honar. Kadachit sambandhahi tutatil. Yachi tayari aahe ka? Kahi zale tari ekmekana dosh na deta sagali paristhiti sambhalayachi kuvat aahe ka? Ha vichar nakki kela pahije. Tisari pidhi mhanaje far lamb nahi. Tyamule sagalya natevaikanshi sambansh badalatil. Tya doghanchya mulana natevaikanchi double relations vegali vatatil. Tyanahi yogy train karane aavashyak aahe. Hi khare khoop pudhachi gosht aahe.

Mala je janavale te mi lihile. Kadachit kahi tu sangitalelya casemadhe lagu padat nasel.

Champak
Tuesday, June 14, 2005 - 11:32 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

itsayaa- pIZI cao kisana mhNajao nai@k kayaÆ

AaDnaava ek Aaho mhMjao kayaÆ

Ana dovauk ek Aaho kaÆ

dovauk ek Asaola t kahI trI XaaMtI vagaOro kirtat Asao Ana evaZo ca malaa maahot ho²

Rajju
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 4:15 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Chioo, thanks Ga! maaza prashna tu aagdi barobar pakadalas, Maala jevhan he kalal, techa maala hi ha vichar barobar vatala nahin, scintific ritya jar kharokar aasa kahi ghadu sakta,aani samajat khaas karun dhoganchya hi aai vadilancha virodh patkarun he sarva karun kya milavanr. sambhandh tar tutatil varun tyanchya mulana hi pudhe tras hoel. maag kay tya doghani paul maage ghenech yogya ka?

Champak, Tisarya pithiche mhanje third generation, jasta soopa manjhe, Thin bhawande, thighe hi thin dishana jatat, tyanchi mule, anni mulanchi mule manjhe third generation. Aadnav ek mhanje je tyach surname tech tichahi surname, devak paan ekch aahe, maag tula kya watat, majya prashnavar????????


Sayonara
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 6:45 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

chioo, caaMgalaM explain kolaM Aahosa . pTlaM. AgadI naa%yaat lagna krayacaca Asaola tr dÜGaaMcaa blood group caok krNaM yaÜgya. ekacaa +ve AaiNa ekacaa -ve Asaola tr hÜNaaáyaa maulaaMmaQyao janmatÁ dÜYa AsaNyaacao caansaosa jaast.³ho maI Aamacyaa Da^@TraMkDUna eoklaM Aaho.´ maaJaM hI lagna naa%yaat JaalaolaM Aaho AaiNa to hI AgadI sa##yaa. pNa naiXabaanao ksalaoca p`a^blaomsa Aalaolao naahIt. so good luck.

Bee
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 6:53 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ica}Ê Cana maaihtI idlaIsa.

r>gaT ekca Asalaa tr kahIhI hÜt naahI Asao malaa ek Da^@Tr saaMgat hÜto. maI jao eoklao to Asao hÜto kI ekca jar r>gaT Asaola tr kahI hÜ] Xakto. pNa [qao vaogaLIca maaihtI imaLalaI. (aba_la na@kI maaihtI imaLola kaÆ eKadI ilaMk imaLalaI tr baro hܚla.

ica}Ê saayaÜnaaraÊ ha ivaYaya kaZlyaaba_la Qanyavaad²

Chioo
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 8:31 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Rajju, yasathi doctorancha salla ghetalela changala. Jar tyani ekmekana bhau-bahin ya najaratun kadhi baghitalech nasel aani ekmekanvar poorn vishwas asel, pudhe je kahi hoil te nibhavun nyayachi dhamak asel tar virodh patkarata yeil. Aani mukhy mhanaje tyana swatala ya navin kalalelya natyabaddal tyana kay vatate? Jar tyana bhau-bahin he nate thodejari patat asel tar pudhe jau naye. Nantar aparadhipanachi bhavana yeu shakate. Doghehi mature asatil, keval premachya pustaki kalpanetun prem kele nasel tar te nantarahi pristhiti sambhalu shakatil.

Sayonara, Bee, tumachya pratikriyanbaddal dhanyavad. Malahi genetically kay farak padato yabaddal articles vachun mahiti aahe. Kunitari adhikrutpane jast prakash takala pahije.

Bee
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 8:46 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ica}Ê caulat baihNa BaavaaMmaQalao p`oma ho iktIhI saccao Asalao trI %yaalaa saamaaijak stravar iktpt maanyata imaLto ho tulaa zavaUk Aahoca. samaajaacaa ivacaar [qao kravaa laagatÜ Asao malaa vaaTto. tÜ (a dÜGaaMcyaa AašbaabaaMnaI AaiNa vairYz maMDLIMnaI kolaa Asaavaa mhNaUna kdaicat %yaaMcaI (a naa%yaalaa maanyata idlaI nasaola. XaovaTI %yaaMnaahI caar laÜkaMmaQao rahUna jaIvana jagaNao Aaho. to %yaaMcaahI ivacaar krtIlaca kI..

timaL kuTuMbaIyaaMmaQao caulat baihNa Baa} lagna k$ Xaktat. Aaplyaat javacyaaMpOkI Ô> maamaa Aa%yaacaI maulao maulaI k$ Xaktat. dIllaIkDo maamaa Aa%yaacao maulaohI ekmaokat lagna k$ Xakt naahI. kalaca maaJyaa Aa^ÔIsamaQao (avar cacaa- JaalaI.

Chioo
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 9:35 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Bee, agadi barobar aahe tuze mhanane. Aapalyakade mhanaje maharashtramadhe he samajmany honar nahi. Mi ase aikale aahe ki, muslim lokat chulat bhavandanchyat lagne hotat. (Pakiza ya picturevarun charcha zali hoti.) Doghanchyahi aai-vadilancha poorn virosh asanar he agadi patanyasarakhe aahe. Pan jar tya doghana ya adachani vatat nasatil tar 'miya biwi raji to kya karega kaji'. Tyana sagalya sambhavy guntaguntichi kalpana dene he aapale kam. Baki nirnay tyanach ghyava laganar.

Rajju, tyancha kay nirnay hoto he jarur sang. Aani shaky zalyas tyani ka ghetala hesudha.

Champak
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 9:45 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

kzINa Aaho² iktIhI durcao Asalao trI to Baa] Ana bahINaI cao naato Aaho.

samaaja Ana Garcao laÜk (alaa maanyata doNaar naahIt.


Baa] Baa] ekmaokapasauna štko dur ka gaolao Ana %yaaMnaI kahI ca saMbaMQa ka zovalaa naahI ho malaa maahIt naahI %yaamauLo tumhI kXyaa pirisqaitt p`qama BaoTlaa Ana toMvha AaDnaava ek Aaho Ê (avaÉna ikmaana Garcao kÜNaÊ kahI saMbaMQa Aaho kaÊ naato kaya Asao svaaBaaivak p`Xna ka pDlao naahIÆ

karNa ikmaana gaavaakD caa maaNausa mhNalao trI Aapna naatI gaÜtI ivacaartÜ Ana š qao t ek ca AaDnaavaacao dÜna laÜk BaoTlao trI p`aqaimak caAÜkiXa ka krt naahIt ho malaa samajalao naahI.

Love at first sight Asaola t baat vaogaLI.




Rajju
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 11:30 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Champak, mala tuza mhanan patat, paan aaj asse kiti khutumbh mumbait aahet ki jyanchya mulanna gawakadchi mahiti aahe? tyancha janmach jar mumbai madhech gela aani gaouncha samdhacha aala nahin tar tyana kay mihit kon kute aahe, aajacha dhakadhakichya jivanat saadha vicharpus karayala vela nasto tar yen jan sudunach dya, nahin tar ya HG chi kalpana hi suchali nasti. Dusre mhanje, hindu madhe aase hi jati aahe jyanchyat simillar surname maadhe lagna hotat, eg dile tar naik-naik, pradhan-pradhan. potjaati aaslya tari te hinduch na? Doghan baddal Spastacha sangayache tar, doghehi matrimonial site var eka friend through bhetale, tyanahi vatale ki jari surname ek aasale tari kahi tari different aasel, doghanahi jarashi sudha kalpna navhati ke te itake javalche aasu shaktil, No, it's not love at first site, nahi prem kalpanetun te premat padle. suruwatila jevhan surname bahunach tine nakar dila, pan fakta friends mhanun bolu tari shakto, kahi diwasatach doghanahi ekmekancha swabhav, vagane, vichar karnyachi padhat, infact doghanche dosh hi manya kele aani mhanunach tyani garchyan samor vicharle, paan jevhan parisiti samor aali, tevhan kahi vela doghanahi garchyanche patale, mhanun kahi divas na bolata touch madhe na rhanyachahi nirnaya getala, paan te kahi shakya zala nahin. maaza ithe ek prashna aahe, mulgi & mulga, doghanchi bhet honya aadhi, konihi tyanchya jiwana navhat ki lagna paryant vichar karova. Muli baddhal mi jasta sangu shakte, tihi matured aahe & mi khush zale ki tine samorun sangitale ki tila ha mulga pasand aahe, aamhi tar tichya lagnachi aashacha sodli hoti. jya prakare ticha swabhav aahe, tyanusar, tichyat love bone nahin aasach aamhala vatat hota.
thodasa co incidence cha vichar kela kinva, mazi kuli kalpna mandali tar, jar ya doghanch hona navhatach kinva yanchya ya betit kahi pudhacha sanket aahe ka? ki jya gosti gadatat tyancha pudhach aayushyashi kahitari sambadh aasto ka?





Rajju
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 12:08 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Chioo, Bee, Sayonara, tumchya moulyawan mahiti sathi dhanyawad, doghancha nirnya kay asel aani ka, he mi nakkich sangen. infact mi tumcha pratikriya tila kalvat aahe,
paan rahun rahun ekcha khant watate, sadya saral mulichya jiwanath he motha vadal, madhech ka aal. ka kharach prem kadhi sahaj milath nahin??? kadachit mi tichya problem madhe vahavat gele. paan malahi ya natyanch mahiti havich aahe. ticha nirnay kahi aasel, maaza pathimba tila nakkich aahe.

Champak
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 12:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

p`oma Baavanaa sahaijak Aaho. pNa lagna Jaalao trca p`oma saÔla Jaalao Asao kahI Aaho kaÆ ³ivaYayaaMtr nakÜ´

Ana samaajaat rahtÜ %yaa samaajaacao kahI inayama paLNao baMQanakark Aaho.

tumhI jar ma^T/ÜmaÜinaAla saašT vaÉna BaoTlaa tr tumhI maaihtI Gyaayalaa hiva hÜtI Ana %yaaba_la GarcyaaMnaa klpnaa Vayalaa hvaI hÜtI.
%yaamauLo tumhI it maaihtI GarcyaaMnaa ka kLvalaI naaho karNa ek Asao Asau Xakto ik tumhI dÜGao ca svat cao lagna svata zrvat hÜtatÆ maga yaÜgya maahItIcyaa ABaavaI ho sagaLo GaDlao Aaho.

inaNa-ya tumacaa tumhI ca Gyaayacaa Aaho pNa mah%vaacyaa inaNa-yaat GarcyaaMnaa hI saamaIla kÉNa Gaotlao tr baro Asa ek sallaa došla maI.

Punyanagarikar
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 12:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baIÊ tuJyaa p`YNaacaM ]<ar [qaoca doto -
(In the rhesus system)

r> gaT dÜna p`karcao Asatat positive and negative. if you have a specific antigen in your blood, then you are Rh+ve, else Rh-ve.
navara baayakÜ dÜGahI jar Aar eca pa^iJaiTvh AsalaoÊ ikvha dÜGahI Aar eca naogaoiTvh AsalaoÊ tr kahI p`a^balaoma nasatÜ.
pNa baayakÜ jar Rh-ve AsalaI AaiNa navara Rh+ve AsalaaÊ tr %yaaMcyaa baaLacaa r>gaT ha Rh+ve Asau XaktÜ. AXyaa vaoLI Aaš ca r> baaLacyaa r>gaTa laa foreign body samajaU XaktM AaiNa %yaacyaa ivaÉwM antibodies tyaar k$ XaktM. (anao baaLacyaa svaasqyaalaa QaÜka AsatÜ. This is called Rh disease or Rh sensitivity and only occurs during pregnancy. This is a serious form of Rh incompatibility and should be kept in mind. Also this form of Rh incompatibility will get worse with each pregnancy. However, this is treatable, but still considered high risk.
dusara p`kar mhNajao a milder form of Rh incompatibility. If the mother has O group blood (can be O Rh+ve) and the father has A, B or AB blood (Rh+ve or Rh-ve), then the baby can have either A, B, AB or O (+ve and -ve) blood group.
If the baby's blood group and mother's blood group do not match, then it is possible that the mother's blood can create antibodies to the baby. Fortunately, this is a mild form of Rh incompatibility and usually requires nothing more than careful monitoring during pregnancy. Sometimes infants born have mild jaundice which is also completely treatable and nothing to worry about.

Apart from this, there is also the possibility of atypical antibodies being present in either partner irrespective of blood group.

This is my understanding of the topic, so please cau.BaU. Va Gyaa. Aajauna maaihtI hvaI Asaola tr Da^@TraMnaa ivacaara

Ninavi
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 12:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa vaaTtM ihMdU ivavaah kayaVap`maaNao 7 ipZ\yaaMpya-Mt naa%yaat lagna krta yaot naahI. caU.BaU.Va.Gyaa.

Manish2703
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 6:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

PN : one correction. jar Aašcaa bloodgroup +'ve AaiNa baaLacaa bloodgroup -'ve Asaola tr Aašcyaa XarIrat antibodies tyaar hÜtat. yaanao baaLalaa kaih QaÜka hÜt naahI.. pNa puZcyaa pregnancy maQao %yaa hÜNaaáyaa baaLalaa problems yao} Xaktat.

Punyanagarikar
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 6:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

manaIXa.. barÜbar. tsa maI ilaihlaya Asa malaa vaaTlaM. AsaÜ. clarification ba_la AaBaar

Maitreyee
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 8:30 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

javaLcyaa naa%yaat lagna krNao AaiNa var jyaavar ilaihlao gaolaoya to incompatible bloodgroups cao probs ho dÜna vaogavaogaLo p`Xna Aahot Asao malaa vaaTtoya. :-O

Shwetalee
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 8:57 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Javalchay natyat lagna karane genetically changle nahi pan aapn genetically aaichya natevaikanshi jasta close asato babanchya natevaikanpeksha. Tyamule jar mamachya mulishi lagna karu shakato tar durchya kakanchya mulashi/mulishi karayla genetically kahi harakat nahi

Karadkar
Wednesday, June 15, 2005 - 9:47 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Shwetaleem, not everybody is close their Mom's side of the family. So please do no make any assumptions like that.

Bee
Thursday, June 16, 2005 - 12:33 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

PN- KUp Cana maaihtI idlaIsa. Alert JaalaÜ Aaho.

inanaavaIÊ ha ek caaMgalaa ]paya Aaho javaLcyaa naa%yaat lagna krNyaasaazI. sarL sarL hI irt saaMgaUNa TakayacaIÊ mhNaayacao caaMgalyaa dha ipZ\yaa ]laTUna gaolyaat AaiNa javaLcyaa naa%yaat lagna Jaalao naahI. Aata Akravyaa ipZIt kahI hrkt naahI. jao hÜt Aaho to irtIirvaajaalaa Anausa$naca hÜt Aaho. kuNaalaa dha ipZ\yaaMba_la maaihtI Asato baro:-)

cala rajaU tuJaa gahNa p`Xna sauTlaa Aata :-) Cana maÜitcaUr AaiNa rvyaacao laaDU tyaar zova :-)

maO~oyaIÊ ha baIbaI Anaok CÜTo CÜTo p`Xna ivacaarNyaasaazI kolaa gaolaa Aaho. AaiNa maaJyaa mato Asaa eKada baIbaI hvaaca hÜta. %yaamauLo baIbaIcyaa janakalaa manaÁpUva-k Qanyavaad :-)

XvaotalaIÊ naahI Asao kahI nasato.. AamhI tr dÜnhIkDcyaa naa%yaat imasaLtÜ.

Ldhule
Thursday, June 16, 2005 - 4:40 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maJyaa AÜLKIcaI ek maulagaI Aaho naagapurcaI tIcyaa kakancyaa maulaaXaI lagna kolaolaI. tIcao kaka puNyaalaa Asaayacao. %yaancao jaaNao yaoNao navhto jaast. tI ema e krayalaa puNyaalaa AalaI. GarcyaanaI Kup ivarÜQa kÉnahI dÜGaanaI lagna kola.

Champak
Thursday, June 16, 2005 - 8:10 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baI tulaa Ajauna iktI baIbaI hvaotÆ

Eliza
Thursday, June 16, 2005 - 2:01 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AroÊ XvaotalaIca post naIT vaacaa. itnao jaonaoiTklaI AapNa Aašcyaa javaL AsatÜ AsaM ilaihlaya. naa%yaanao ikMvaa manaanao naahI.

tLTIp :- malaa (aba_la kahIhI maaihtI nasalyaanao i don't agree or disagree. (a post caa ‘naa%yaa’ XaI kahIhI saMbaMQa naahI. :-)

Sanghamitra
Thursday, June 16, 2005 - 3:27 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baI p`Xna [t@yaa sahja ksaa sauTolaÆ
Aro dha ipZ\yaat naahI mhNatoya naa inanaavaIÆ
AaiNa to itsaáyaa ipZIcao Baa}band Aahot mhNatoya naa rjjaUÆ
puNya r>agaTacaI maaihtI ekdma Cana idlaIsa naahItr ekUNaca laÜkaMmaQao [tko majaoXaIr gaOrsamaja Asatat kI basa yaa baabatIt. navarabaayakÜcaa r>gaT ekca Asaola tr Baa}bahINa AsalyaasaarKo Asato Asao caaMgalao iXaklaolao laÜk gaMBaIrpNao saaMgatanaa eoklaoya maI. :-)
maO~oyaI :-)
AgaM pNa jaÜpya-Mt cacaa- inaÉpd`vaI Aaho tÜpya-Mt zIkca mhNaayacaI
vaoL AalaIya saQyaa. ³toMvha caalaU do...´ :-)


Dineshvs
Thursday, June 16, 2005 - 4:27 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

puNyanagairkrÊ tumhI yaÜgya maaihtI idlaI Aaho. AaplyaakDo Anaok laÜkaMcyaa manaat yaabaabatIt gaOrsamaja Aahot.
baayakÜcaa r>gaT naogaoiTvh Asaola tr AaQaIpasauna kaLjaI GyaavaI laagato. Xa@yatÜ pihlyaa vaoLI Ôarsaa ~asa hÜt naahI pNa dusaáyaavaoLI jaast QaÜka AsatÜ.
yaavar Anti D immunoglobin naavaacao šMjao@Xana dotat. yaÜgya %yaa Da^@Trcyaa doKBaalaIKalaI rahNao ho ]<ama.

naa%yaat lagana Aijabaat kÉ nayaot. %yaat maulaamaQao maanaisak ivakar hÜNyaacaI Xa@yata jaast Asato.

Bee
Friday, June 17, 2005 - 12:49 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

elaayaJaaÊ tU naIT vaacalaosa. maaJyaakDUna AaiNa imanaÜtIkDUna Qanyavaad.
imanaÜit tuJaohI Qanyavaad doNyaacaa Aagaa}pNaa krtÜ Aaho :-)

XvaotalaIÊ saa^rI²

Manya
Saturday, June 18, 2005 - 2:34 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

naa%yaat lagana Aijabaat kÉ nayaot. %yaat maulaamaQao maanaisak ivakar hÜNyaacaI Xa@yata jaast Asato. >>>>> (alaa kaih Xaais~ya AaQaar Aaho kaÆ

Manya
Saturday, June 18, 2005 - 2:53 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

naa%yaa baahor krNyaaca mau#ya karNa malaa vaaTt kI genetic variation
Aajaih kaih jamaaittÊ Aap - Aapsaat lagna hÜtatÊ pNa AaXaa jaatI Aaja naamaXaoYa hÜNyaacyaa maaga-kDo AahotÊ karNa %yaaMcyaat kQaI genetic variation Aalaca naahI %yaamauLo eKadyaa genetic disease mauLo %yaanaa QaÜka inamaa-Na hÜtÜ.
(a genetic variation ca maUL AaplaI p`itkar Xa>I majabaut krNyaa maagao AahoÊ tsaca genetic inheritable disease naa AaLa GaalaNa.
sa#yaa Baa] baihNaÊ ikMvaa caulat Baa] baihNa AiXa lagna avoid krNa puZcyaa ipiZcyaa dRiYTnao caaMgala ( Aqaa-t (alaa AaplyaakDo saamaaijak maanyataih nasatoca ) . but based on recent studies.. distant cousins are preferred as potential partner AaiNa (aca maUL punha ekda p`itkarXa>I Aaho. ( MHC/HLA class matching )
kdaicat Aaplyaa puva-jaanaa MHC/HLA ba_la &ana AsaavaÊ mhNaunaca %yaanaI " gaÜ~ A " Aist%vaat AaNalaI AaiNa sagaÜ~ ivavaah vaja- zrvalaa ?


Champak
Saturday, June 18, 2005 - 11:35 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

gaÜ~ Ana dovauk ek ca Aahot kaÆ

maaJyaa eka naatovaaška cao lagna jamavatanaa dÜnhI kDcao dovauk ek ca inaGaalyaamauLo to itqao ca qaaMbavalao gaolao.

Rajju
Tuesday, June 21, 2005 - 12:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Mandali,

Tumha sarvanche maanpurvak aabhar!!!!!!!!
ya surva charche warun mi mhanu shakte ki, jaar tya doghanch rakta gat ekach aasel tar tyani pudhe jayala harkat nahin, jaar tyanchyat sarva paristitila samore janyachi dhmak aasel tar tyani jarur karave.
sarvasadharan, natyat lagna karne kaahi vaiet nahin, aani samaj mhatale ki virodh haa aala, pan, kalantarane tehi swikarle jael. suruwat tar zali aahe fakta samaj manya honyas thoda vel lagel. jase aadhi jati baher lagna kelele chalat nhavte ni aara saras pane chalatat. tasacha he hi maanla jael, shewati doghanch prashna!!!!!!

Chioo
Wednesday, June 22, 2005 - 3:44 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Mala manapasun vatate ki, asha cases exceptionalch rahavyat. Samajat ya swikaralya jau nayet. Nahitar bhau-bahin ya natyala arthch uranar nahi. Halli mama-aatyachya mulat lagne karane kami hote aahe. Bhau-bahin he nate tasech rahave. Mag te kuthalyahi natyatale ka asenat.

Ithe case vegali aahe. Te ekmekana bhau-bahin mhanun kadhich bhetale nahit. Ekdam matrimony sitevar bhetale. Yabaddal var charcha kelich aahe. Pan asha goshti vadhu nayet he matr agadi vatate.

Manuswini
Wednesday, June 22, 2005 - 12:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Hi to All,
I have been reading all this posts but as for giving my views on this,I dont think I have knowledge to comment on.

But just wanted to remind guys out there, do you know in MUslims get married to sisters , be from mom's side, dad's side, immediate cousin.
The only relation is spared is "own" sister.

Personally, when I heard this for the first time, I just didnt feel good to hear it.

But again, this is PURELY my feeling.:-) and hindus & muslims do have different views.
And I feel great about Hindu tradition in this aspect again.
Its not to prove if Hindu VS Muslim tradition thing if some of guys might start arguing on this.
I have not heard Muslims having problem with kids or genetic issues due to this.

But YES, another community is parsi, who also get married in relation,mom's sisters daughters, dad's brother's daughters etc ,

And who doesnt know what parsis famous for?

Somehow I feel like expressing "chioo" opinion here("Bhau-bahin he nate tasech rahave").
Again, all out there reading this, I believe you guys wont make the above info provided as another thread of controversy or argument.

Lastly,Not meant to offend anybody here

Manu

Manuswini
Wednesday, June 22, 2005 - 12:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Just wanted to add here about couple whom I know and forgot to write here in my first post as I was just thinking on this topic after my first post(actually got my mom's call and I remembered this couple),


I know one close couple in Bombay who are cousins to each other.
tyane swatachya mavashichya mulishi lagan kele premakhatir....
(tevhahi ekun vichitra vatale...when mom told me with strange reaction of hers as well).
Paan he mahit nahi ki tyanche "gotra" kaay hote, vegale hote ka?

Again ,To note ; these couple are orthodox Hindu kannadiga family and they projected this marriage as "doable" in their community.
and lastly, they have two daughters (mentaly no issues).

So its difficult to comment or come to solid conclusion on this topic.

Manu

Chioo
Thursday, June 23, 2005 - 4:19 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manu, ya genetical issubaddal ajun research chalu aahe. Aani poornpane tya doghanchya genesvar avalambun aahe. Jar tyanche genes strong asatil tar kahi problem nahi yenar. Pan jar dushit asatil aani ase javalachya natyatil vivah jast zale tar te multiply hou shakatat. He sagale doghanchi kiti genes changali aahet, kiti dushit aahet tar kiti suptavasthet aahet yaavr depend karate. Mala yabaddal evadhich mahiti aahe. Yavarun ek suchale purvi gharanyala khoop mahattv dile jayache (ajunhi baryach thikani dile jate) te yavarun tar navhe? Yacha bahuda nantar sandarbh badalat gela. Aani nako tya goshtina mahattv dene suru zale.

Mi sadhya Betti Mehamudiche 'Not Without My Daughter' pustak vachate aahe. Ti Iranla aapalya navaryabarobar jate. Tithalya samajachi kahi nirikshane tine lihili aahet tyat ha ek mudda aahe. Tithe tila barichashi mule mentally kamajor kinva janmtha apangattv asaleli aadhalali. Yache ek karan tyanchyat satat karanyat aalele javalachya tatyatil vivah hesudha asu shakate. Mala aatta te aathavale mhanun lihile.

Ya muddyavar kahrach konala jast mahiti asali tar lihavi. Koni genesvar kam karanare aahe ka? Koni netvar shodhanyacha prayatn kela aahe ka?
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