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Eliza
Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 12:12 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

yogyaa, u b right. pan then there seems to be no 'right' way of doing this and yet millions of happily married couples will tell you it works. so finally its upto you to decide whats the best way.

Yogibear
Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 12:24 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Eliza: well you said it.... a method that might work for some might not work for other... there is no one "ideal" or "right way", its perceptional....

Limbutimbu
Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 3:13 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baGaNyaacaa kaya-Ëma kovaL kÝTuimbak patLIvarca hÜtÜ kaÆ
puNyaat vaQauvarancao maoLavao AayaÜijat krtatÊ toiqala AnauBava kuNaalaa Aaho kaÆ
prdoXaat Dansa kaya-Ëma Asatat naohomaI itqao jaujaubaI AÜLKI hÜtat Asao mhNatat² AaplyaakDo Baartat Aaplyaa sansaÌtIt tÉNa s~IpuÉYaaÙI ek~ yaovau XakNaaro kaya-Ëma javaLpasa h_par kolao AahotÊ to sauQaaÉna Gaota yaošla kaÆ trIhI saava-jainak samaarmBaatuna AÜLKI hÜtataca²
malaa kaya mhNaayacaoya kI
daKivaNyaacaaÊ baGaNyaacaa kaya-Ëma
1. vaOyai>k patLIvar ekokT\yaanao sva jabaabadarIvar
2. kÝiTimbak sahBaagaanaoÊ Garat vaa darat
3. saava-jainak ]%savaÊ kaya-ËmaatÊ jasao kI eka lagnaat Anya dÜnacaar lagnaacao saut jamato
4. vaQauvar maoLavyaat
tumhalaa kaya vaaTtoÆ

Shraddhak
Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 4:15 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

eilaJaaÊ dÜGaa jaNaaMcyaa Aaš - vaiDlaaMcaI kahIhI interaction nasatanaa Ô> maulaa - maulaInao BaoTNaM ho na@kIca yaÜgya naahIÊ pNa jar %yaaMcaa p~vyavahar vagaOro Jaalaa Asaola AaiNa Aaš - vaDIla OK AsatIla tr Ô> %yaa dÜGaaMnaI BaoTayalaa kaya hrkt AahoÆ AaiNa AgadI date/dinner laa naahI pNa ikmaana eKaVa javaLcyaa cafe maQyao ³ say maulaIcyaa GarajavaLcyaa cafe maQyao´ saMQyaakaLI jaa}na dÜGaM BaoTU Xaktat. yaat kahI unsafe Aaho AsaM malaa trI vaaTt naahI... AaiNa tovaZI decency KP cyaa stage laa pÜcalaolyaa bayaa-ca maulaaMt Asato.
YB Ê regarding one person getting involved and getting hurt if rejected.... hmmm... I guess in arranged marriage stuff the person should be mature enough to take these things practically. AaiNa jar kÜNaI AsaM involve JaalaM AaiNa naMtr %yaalaa / itlaa reject kolyaamauLo duKavalaM gaolaM tr caUk 99.99% %yaa vya>IcaIca Aaho. I don't understand how could somebody get involved without getting a clear "yes" response from the other person?
LT Ê eka lagnaat Anaok lagnao jamaNao tsao OK vaaTto karNa family background vagaOro gaÜYTI caaMgalyaa p`karo kLU Xaktat.
vaQaU var maoLavao parMpairk pwtInao arrange kolaolao nasatIla trca ]<ama² I guess puNyaatca ek " saaqa - saaqa " mhNaUna ivavaah maMDL (I am not sure about the name) Aaho AaiNa to AgadI vaogaL\yaa p`karo ho maoLavao organize krtat. %yaavar laÜksa<aa caturMgamaQyao laoKhI yaayacao maQyao² Their approach seems pretty good in this stuff..

Orchid
Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 11:05 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

deepanjali,
maaJyaa %yaa maOi~iNalaa gaaNa mhnaayalaa saaingatlao mhNauna rDu vagaOro Aalao naaihÊpuZo itcao %yaaca maulaaXaI lagna Jaalao.itlaa yaat kaih vaavagao vaaTlao navhto...maI itcyaa jaaiga Asato tr malaa AavaDlao nasatoÊpihlyaaca BaoiTt AnaÜLiK maaNasaansamaÜr gaaNa mhNaayalaa²...AasaÜ jyaacao %yaacao mat²

Deepanjali
Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 6:06 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

yaÜgaIÊ
tU mhNatÜsa to possible Aaho.
Personaly maI EaQda XaI sahmat AahoÊ kuzlyaahI p`karcyaa arranged marriage maQao Xa@ya tovaZo practical rhavao Asao malaahI vaaTto.
eKaVa proposal maQao Interest GaoNao AaiNa involve hÜNao yaa dÜna gaÜYTI vaogaL\yaa Aahot.
dÜnhI side nao ‘hܒ yaot nahI tÜpya-Mt involve hÜNyaa saar#yaa emotional level laa jaa} nayao.
In case dÜnhI side nao involvement Asaola tr problem ca naahI pNa one sided involvement Asaola AaiNa maga rejection laa saamaÜro jaavao laagalao tr tU mhNatÜsa tsao nakIca eKadI vya>I hurt hܚla.

Anjali28
Monday, August 09, 2004 - 3:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

http://maharashtratimes.indiatimes.com/articleshow/806224.cms

.. .. .. .. ..

Yog
Monday, August 09, 2004 - 6:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Anjali,
Fundu Link, kaya ilahIlayaÊ mast KusaKuXaIt XaOlaI Aaho..
" vaQaU var koMd` " caI AazvaNa JaalaI..
:-)


Kalandar77
Monday, August 09, 2004 - 6:43 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

khi khi khi... sahi link aahe anjali..

Anjali28
Monday, August 09, 2004 - 7:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Yog, KD,
eKaVa maayabaÜlaIkranaca ha laoK ilahIlaa Asaavaa AXaI malaa daT XaMka Aaho..:-)

Maitreyee
Monday, August 09, 2004 - 7:56 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

" jyaalaa daKvaNaM vagaOro pTtM AaiNa dusara kahI pyaa-ya hI nasatÜ AXaa yaa maulaaMcaI hI jamaat maulaIlaa baahor nao]na ‘tsalaM’ kahI krNyaasaazI dovaanao inamaa-Naca kolaolaI naaihyao "
laoK mast ilaihlaaya pNa sauÉ hÜta hÜta lagaoca saMpUna gaolyaasaarKo vaaTlao.

Paragkan
Monday, August 09, 2004 - 8:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

khi khi khi khi khi ... zakaas lihilaay lekh :-)

Limbutimbu
Tuesday, August 10, 2004 - 3:15 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

hLd na laagalaolyaa jaUna pÜracyaa baapanao ilaihlyaasaarKa vaa+ya²

Lalu
Tuesday, August 10, 2004 - 4:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

CoÊ AsaMtuYT kopIkoga`stanao kavaUna ilaihlaMya² :-)
Thanks Anjali

Keshar
Tuesday, August 10, 2004 - 11:00 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

jabri re!...
sahi aahe lekh

Milindaa
Wednesday, August 11, 2004 - 11:23 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aro kÜNaItrI %yaa laoKatIla majakUr [qao Taka. ma. Ta. caa faÐT maaJyaa maXaIna var ³jasaa idsaayalaa paihjao tsaa´ idsat naahI. :-(

Arati_halbe
Thursday, August 12, 2004 - 3:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

milindaa to sagaLo naaTk prt iXavaajaI maQao ilahayacaa patience kahI naahI malaa. laÜkMkDo ikmaana windows Aaho AXaI Apoxaa kÉna [qao article upload krto Aaho. font pNa Aaho %yaat
Mods, please delete if found inappropriate.
milindaa, i assume that you have tried changing the encoding to user defined and all that stuff suggested on the atharvashirsha BB
application/x-zip-compressed
mata.zip (36.7 k)


Prasadp77
Thursday, August 12, 2004 - 6:14 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I tried to upload pdf yesterday but there was some trouble and now doesn't allow me to upload b'coz size is 200kb!!

Milindaa
Thursday, August 12, 2004 - 9:12 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

idsalaa laoK... huXXa..
Qanyavaad AartI AaiNa laalaU :-)

AartIÊ maI to sagaLo ]paya kÉna qaklaÜ AaiNa magaca yaoqao maosaoja Taklaa :-)

p`saadÊ tU tI Ôašla tuJyaa eKaVa saašTvar AplaÜD kÉna yaoqao ilaMk do] XaktÜsa :-)

Bee
Thursday, August 12, 2004 - 2:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Arati, chhan aahe lekh. dhanyawad fonts aani lekh dilyabaddal.

Prasad mail karun pathawata yeil ka mala tee pdf file?

Prasadp77
Thursday, August 12, 2004 - 2:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Here it goes,
http://www.geocities.com/prasadp77/MaTa.pdf

Shaun
Sunday, August 22, 2004 - 7:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Let me share with you all a forwarded mail which is supposed to be a real life story.. no way of verifying it though.. but doesn't sound too unrealistic.. :-)

By Anonymous:
Let me share my first Kanda-pohe experince with u all.....
The idea of going to a guy's place to see him was itself killing me....but cudnt help.
So me my Mom-dad, me n my brother went to their house in pune.....

Now in bracket is ( ): manatalya manat...Ok

me : (ghar tar changala ahe..)
His Unti:ya na ya.....
we go inside...one old n one middle aged person is sitting ...don-char
bayka pan hotya...mulga ajun ala nahi....
me: (ata kadhi yenar ha....)
His unti: Hi ka tumchi mulgi...
me:-(nahiiiii..mi nahi kay...ti dusri....me apli ashich ale....kay prashna
ahe ka ha)
mazi aai :Ho...
His unti:agdi laxmi-narayanacha joda ahe....
me:-(adhich kay ...ajun narayan baghitala pan nahi)
ekadchya tikadchya gappa....10 minute...narayanacha patta nahi...make-up
karat asel
mulachi aai : kay nav tuza..
me : (nav pan mahit nahi ka..)Sujata ani barobar god hasne..(aaine sangitalela)
Pohe yetat..pan mulga nahi...
amchi aai parat athavan karun dete...
aai : mulga baher gelay ka...?
tyachi aai: nahi ahe na...kam kartoy officecha...
me: (shi..he kay..office cha kam ghari..aai nako..chal jau ya)
tyachi aai: arey...khali ye.....
mi:-(ye na baba ekdacha)
yes...ani to ala...ok looking...absolutely not interested types....ekdam
khali maan ghalun shahanya mulasarkha ala
mulga: what is the nature of work in HSBC ?
mi: (interview ahe ka ha..) bla bla bla bla
mulache dad:HSBC is gud paymaster no ?
me: (mazya paishavar dola...aai chal jauya) yaaa...hehehehe
mulache dad:mag jevan ghari banavata ka ?
me: (saral ka nahi vicharat swayampak yeto ka) ho..kadhi kadhi...hehe
Pohe khavun zalyavar..
tyachi aai:ja re tila apla ghar dakhav.
he : ok Mummy (aaicha shahna bal te..chala)
me: (How Romantic !!..ekdam filmi style)
He showed me the house as if I had come to buy
it....then came his room !!
he : this is my room...
me: (mag mi kay karu ) Its nice ..hehehe
Oh Sh*t !! whose photograph...
Gandhiji...Nahiiii...bhagwan.....
Save me....Ya to mai is ghar me reh sakti hu nahi to ye tasvir....
he :wht r ur hobbies..
me : reading ..writing...dancing...anything its variable...wht abt u ...
he : reading..songs :only kumar gandharva...(he is not related to bal
gandharva any way)
He: I luv classical music..wht abt u..
me: Yaa..classical its gud..I dont understand much...
he: I hate radio mirchi..How irritating...I cant tolerate it ...
me:-(I luv it...) yaa..but sometimes its gud hehehe
me: Lets go down(i m getting bored)
he:ok
through out the conversation he was not at all looking at me...n I was
continuously staring.....(kunachi bhiti ahe ki kay)
After we come down :
all of the ppl : hehehehe
me (wht so funny )
mazi aai: Saglyana namaskar kar...
me: (a mi nahi ja...kiti lok ahet...) namaskar karte...
tyachi aai:Gajra ghalte ha...
me:-(shiiii...gajra n all..) ho..chan ahe..hehehe
me n my family : chala achcha yeto mag...
tata bbye...

me relaxed....at home...

Aai ..pappaa...NO..a Big NO....


Roz
Sunday, August 22, 2004 - 8:42 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJaa ek BaabaDa p`Xna Aaho kI jyaap`maaNao maulaI Gar saÜDtat %yaap`maaNao maulaaMnaIhI ka Gar saÜDu nayaoÆ


rÜJa

Abhishruti
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 9:36 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJyaa eka maOi~NaIcaa caulatBaa} tr mhNao varcyaa iKDkIt ]Baa rahuna gaoTatuna yaoNaaáyaa maulaIlaa³daKvaayalaa AaNalaolyaa´ phayacaa jar tI %yaalaa barI vaaTlaI trca tÜ KalaI ]trayacaaÊ naahItr ca@k %yaacyaaGarcao laÜk tÜ Garat naahI Asao saangaayacao. How rude? %yaacyaasaazI mhNao pacaXao maulaIncaI sqaL AalaI hÜtI ³bahutok 499 laÜkanaa (acao Asalao p`tap samajalao AsatIla´ iKDkItuna ekda kahI xaNa ³to pNa tIcaI maana KalaI Asaola tr kayaÆ maaJaa ek BaabaDa p`XNa²´ %yaa maulaIkDo paihlyaavar tI AaplaI jaIvanasaaqaI banaU Xakto kI naahI ho zrvaNaara ha maulagaa Krca ijainayasa Asalaa paihjao.

Asawari
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 4:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

shaun the real story is good one. Ek trayastha mhanun vachayala its very entertaining I guess :-)

Abhishruti tu sangitlelee gosht matra unbelievable aahe :-)

Arch
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 4:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ismataÊ AaiNa AXaa maaNasaaXaI ijanao lagna kola Asaola ikMvaa Jaala Asaola itcaIca malaa dyaa yaoto.

AaiNa gaMmat mhNajao ÔuXaarkInao laÜk saaMgatat kI (anao 500 maulaI paihlyaa. 499 naI naakarla Asaola mhNaUna 500 Jaalyaa AsatIla

Arch
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 4:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJyaa maO~INaIca lagnaaca baGat hÜto. ek maulagaa %yaacao ima~Ê maavaXaIÊ kakI vagaOro baáyaaca laÜkaMnaa Gao}na Aalaa. baÜlaNyaat vagaOro %yaa maulaacaa ima~ca sagaL\yaaMnaa AavaDlaa. naMtr %yaa maulaacaI maaihtI gaÜLa k$na XaovaTI %yaa ima~aXaIca maaJyaa maO~INaInaI lagna kola. prt gaolaa nasaola tÜ maulagaa sagaLa lavaajamaa Gao}na maulagaI baGaayalaa

Rachana_barve
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 6:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

rÜJa Aajakala sagaLoca Gar saÜDtat :-)

Jit
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 8:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

well interesting BB. Aaj pahilyandach ithe alo. But I feel everyone has different preferences and priorities in life. According to that as Eliza said earlier for every person there might be different "RIGHT" way.
Sahaj ek atahaval mhanun lihavas watal. Ashich mazi ek maitrin, tila watat ki if someone is there for her then she will meet him. Amhi sare friends tila sangto ki unless she looks for someone how will she meet anyone. Pan tich apal tech. Asate ekekachi samjut

Paragkan
Monday, August 23, 2004 - 8:17 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ksalaI Aailayao samajaUtÆ to DTPH saarKo isanaomao baGaUna huklaI Asaola tI.

Bee
Tuesday, August 24, 2004 - 3:02 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ijatÊ malaahI maaJyaaba_la tuJyaa maO~INaI saarKca vaaTtya. Asaola jar maaJyaasaazI kuNaI tr malaa tI AapÜAap imaLola :-)

Aca- sahI :-)

Jit
Tuesday, August 24, 2004 - 3:43 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Parag i guess u r right. Bee then best of luck, lawkar sapadu de tula konitari :-) Pan kharach ek matr nischit watat mala, ki ithe MAN julali pahijet ani fakt mula-mulichi nahit tar immediate family chi sudhdha. One can argue ki jagayach asat fakt tya mula-mulila ekatr but still why complicate matters. Garjela shewati apale aai wadil ch dhawun yeu shaktat

Ppk
Friday, August 27, 2004 - 6:32 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AiBaEauit mhNto tsa maaJyaa eka maOi~iNa cyaa Baavaanao 190 mauila nakarlyaa² kaÆ tr %yaalaa Amauk ek ]incacaI Amauk eka rngaacaI Amauk rngaacao kosa AsalaolaI (LOL)Amauk kama krt Asalaoila vagaro maulaiga hvaI hÜtI. XaovaiT Asa kLla ik %yaanao lagna AiQaca zrvala hÜtÊ Gair saangaayalaa Gaabarlaa²

Ajaykulk
Thursday, November 24, 2005 - 11:01 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Namaskaar,

Jodidaarachi niwad Ha vishay kharatar faar mahatwacha aahe. Kaaran tya nirnayaawar tumache pudhache poorna aayushyatil sukha/dukhkha avalambun asate (Hya vidhaanachi satyata fakta vivahitach samaju shakateel!) aso. Tyamule baghanyacha karyakram ha eka step madhe karane faarach chukiche aahe. Pratham mulane anni Muline gharaat kinwa baher bhetun olakh/gappa karawyaat Nantar jar pudhe janyaat doghannahi interest asel tar gharachyanna sahabhagi karun nirnay ghyawa. Kaaran lagna hi fakta doghanchya aayushyat ghadanaari ghatana naahi ti poorna kutumbshi sambandhit goshta aahe.

Manuswini
Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 9:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

हे वरती कुठ्ल्या कळातील लिहिले आहे(कादापोहे प्रकर)??
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