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Saavni Thursday, September 02, 2004 - 10:34 am:      Faar purvipasun ha vishay dokyat hota aani mhanunach to jevha ithe discussion forum madhe pahila tevha thodasa lihavasa vaatla. Hallichya divsat shakyato pratyek gharat ekach mul asta. Hyala kharatar barich karna aahet. Pan mala asa vaatata ki hya madhe tya ekultya ek mulacha tevdha vichar jhalela nahiye. Mhanje ekulta ek asna hya peksha hi ekhada bhavanda asnyatle faayde hyacha vichar kuthetari maage padto aahe. Pan mag jar dusra mul asava tar te hi aapla natural baby asnya peksha jar dattak ghetla tar ? Mhanje hum do hamara ek hyapeksha hi ek swatacha natural baby aani ek adopted asa asayla kaay harkat aahe ? MuLat halli tevdha orthodox vaatavaran nahiye. Adoption vagaire cha sudnyapane vichar karnare tarun aahet tasech te accept karnya itpat tayari vadil-mansanchi hi aahe. Hya barobarach financially suddha barich jaast stability aahe. Aani jari navin piDhila nava thevli tari suddha navin piDhich sudharna ghadvun aanu shakte. Mag adoption hya prakarala navin pidhicha pathimba milayla hava. Tevdhi hi pidhi emotionally strong aahe asa mala vaatata. June sanskar, raktachi natich fakt ghatta vagaire vichar hyatun baher padun adoption cha vichar pratyekana karayla harkat nahi. Ek jeev jyala kahi karna na kunitari taakla aahe tyala aapan adopt karun aapla prem deto hyat upkarapeksha hi aaplya emotional taakadicha pratyay yet asel. Tyat naa ki fakt upkarachi bhavna asel tar eka jeevavar nisvartha prem kelyacha tyala vaadhavnyacha tyala motha jhalela pahnyacha anand hi asel asa vaatata.

Punyanagarikar Thursday, September 02, 2004 - 1:39 pm:      Saavni, >> Mhanje ekulta ek asna hya peksha hi ekhada bhavanda asnyatle faayde hyacha vichar kuthetari maage padto aahe... Completely agree with you on this point.. chaangle points mandle aahet.

Sunidhee Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 4:53 pm:      ga`InakaD- AsaNaaáyaa BaartIyaanaI BaartatUna d<ak Gaotlaola maUla Amaoirkot ksao AaNaavao (acaI kayadoXaIr maaihtI kÜNaalaa Aaho kÆ

Manuswini Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 7:01 pm:      Just thought of sharing my views and one close experience of someone whom I know taken a kid as 'dattak'. On perosnal note, its a "great" thing to accomplish. Yes 'accomplish' as it requires lot and lot mental preparation and it should be left completly to one who wants to adopt and raise a child after analysing his/her/couples emotional/economical/mental/physical situation rather than listening or seeing others facts.(purely my thoughts) but one thing from my uncle exp who adopted a kid as they were not having kid for 14 years of marriage. And kind of 'contentment' they had till some miracle happned to my uncles wife. and she got her kid after 17 years of marriage. what happened next need not be discussed. the adotpted kid kind of has/had different emotional problems/issues so its upto the parents or people who adopt think they can ahndle situation well in any case in future and sure enough to know to deal with if adopted kid has to be told the truth. lastly,its all individual's choice after all. Lot many people would say, adoption is great , this that. But when one has to think and do its different story. as usual, no offense to anybody

Chhakuli Wednesday, March 22, 2006 - 4:42 am:      mul dattak ghyave jar tyache changale aani vayet goon tumhi tumche manal

Nilam1211 Thursday, October 12, 2006 - 11:26 am:      mul dattak ghayla harkat ashi kahi nahi...pan jar udya chukun makun tumche mul zale tar tumi tewadecha prem tyla denar asal tar ok..mana pasun tumche mul manun tyla swekarna r asal tar dattak ha option yogya aahe..