Rshubha
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| | Friday, December 20, 2002 - 5:36 pm: | 
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Baaritya samaaja ha Anaok jaatIÊ BaaYaaÊ Qama- yaat ivaBaagalaolaa Aaho. yaa gaÜYTIMvar bahutaMXaanao
AaplaI rahNaIÊ kpDoÊ KaNao - ipNaoÊ jaIvanamaUlyao AvalaMbaUna Asatat. Aaplaa jaIvanasaaqaI Aaplyaasaar#,yaa pirisqatItUna yaavaa Asao
vaaTNao svaaBaaivak Aaho. yaamauLo ivavaah zrtanaa yaa gaÜYTIMnaa p`aQaanya idlao jaato. ho badlaNyaacaI
garja Aaho ka ?
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Chafa
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| | Friday, December 20, 2002 - 8:19 pm: |
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KUp Cana ivaYaya Aaho XauBaaMgaI.
maaJyaa mato trI hÜ. Aqaa-t tU p`aQaanya Xabd vaaprlaayasa mhNaUna ]<ar hÜ. trI XaovaTI Aaplyaa rahNaImanaacyaaÊ
jaovaNaaKNaacyaaÊ baÜlaNyaacaalaNyaacyaa savaa-t javaL svajaatItIla vyai>ca jaa} Xakto Asao vaaTto.
Aqaa-t punhaÊ yaacaa ]laTa Aqa- Gaotlaa ja} nayao. maI p`aQaanya Asaavao ka yaalaa ]<ar idlao Aaho.
p`aQaanya na@kIca idlao jaa} nayaoÊ pNa ivacaar maa~ jaÉr kravaa.
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Zakki
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| | Saturday, December 21, 2002 - 11:06 am: |
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GaTsfÜT mhNajao lagna Asafla Jaalao Asao maanalao tr BaartIya saMskRtIt vaaZlaolao kaya ikMvaa Amaoirkna
vaatavarNaat vaaZlaolao kayaÊ lagna safL vhayalaa [trca karNao AsaavaI laagatat.
maI Asao paihlao Aaho kIÊ Amaoirkot vaaZlaolyaa maulaaMmaQao rhaNaImaanaÊ ivacaarsarNaI (avar BaartIya
BaaYaaÊ Qama-Ê jaat yaaMcaa pgaDa kmaI AsaUnaÊ %yaaMcyaa [qalyaa vaatavarNaacaa jaast p`Baava Aaho. maulagaa
maulagaI dÜGaoih marazIÊ [qaoca janmalaolaoÊ vaaZlaolaoÊ ekmaokaMnaa lahanapNaapasaUna AÜLKNaaroÊ lagna
Jaalyaavar ek maUla JaalaolaoÊ ina naMtr GaTsfÜT. dÜnhI BaartatatIla ekaraMt kÜkNasqa kuTuMbaoÊ Baartat
vaaZlaolaoÊ pNa [qao yao}na dÜna maulao Jaalyaavar GaTsfÜT² ³AXaI dÜna ]dahrNao´. iXavaaya maulagaI
kahI vaYao- [qao vaaZlaIÊ kahI Baartat. itqaoca marazI maaNasaaXaI p`oma ivavaah. [qao yao}na ek maUla
Jaalyaavar GaTsfÜT² punaÁ AgadI baGaUna baGaUnaÊ dÜnhI kuTuMbaaMcaI ekmaokaMnaa caaMgalaI maaihtI Asatanaa
sauwa %yaa kuTuMbaatIla maulaa maulaIcao lagna Jaalyaavar 10 vaYaa-nao GaTsfÜT²
tr maaJao mat pUvaI-poxaa caaMgalaoca badlalao Aaho. hÜto kayaÊ kI navara baayakÜcao kdaicat jamaolaÊ
pNa iBaÙaQamaI-Ê iBaÙaBaaYaIÊ AXyaa vyaahI laÜkaMcao Aapapsaat jamaNao kizNaÊ ha ek frk jaaNavatÜ.
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Rshubha
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| | Saturday, December 21, 2002 - 10:12 pm: |
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Ja@kIÊ " lagna yaXasvaI hÜNao " evaZ\yaa vyaapk ivaYayaavar yaa BB var cacaa- nakÜ. Ô> jaÜDIdaracaI jaatÊ p`aMtÊ Qama-Ê ikMvaa raYT/ saarKo vaa iBaÙa Asalao tr %yaacaa
kaya prINaama hÜ] XaktÜ yaavarca baÜlaU yaa.
ekIkDo AapNa mhNatÜ kI jaIvanamaana badlalao Aaho. laÜk indian food mhNaUna pMjabaIÊ ]DpIÊ caaT vagaOro Katat. pÜYaaK mhNaala tr sara-sa pMjaabaI dress Gaalatat. BaaYaa sauwa minglish, hinglish ca jaast p`cailat Aaho. maga svajaatIya jaÜDIdaranao na@kI kaya saaQya hÜto ?
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Dalchini
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| | Sunday, December 22, 2002 - 6:51 am: |
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Aga.Ê AapNa pMjaabaIÊ ]dupIÊ caaTÊ pizza Ê [TailayanaÊ qaaÊ caayanaIja vaOgaoro variety/change mhNaUna KatÜ. rÜjacyaa jaovaNaat AapNa AamaTIÊ BaatÊ BaajaIÊ pÜL^Ê caTnaIÊ kÜXaIMbaIr Asao maharaX~Iyana
items KatÜ. rÜja rÜja jar naváyaalaa jaovaNa mhNaUna hotel caa main course imaLayalaa laagalaa tr ksao hÜNaarÆ karNa to kahI Aaplao p`aqamaIk KaV naaihyaoÊ AapNa eKddÜna idvasa
gaMmatÊ majaaÊ change mhNaUna non- maharashtrian Ê non-indian ikMvaa meal other than our caste provides for KÝ XaktÜ pNa rÜja rÜja naahI.
itca kqaa pÜXaaKacaI AapNa pMjaabaI dress jarI by default wear- up mhNaUna vaaprtÜ to saÜyaIsaqaI. lagnaakayaa-tUna %yaa %yaa saMsaÌtIcaa wear-up krNao garjaocao Asato. maI trI Ajauna maharaX~Iyana lagnaat pMjaabaI dress GaalaUna lagnaalaa ]BaI rihlaoila navavaQaU pahIlaolaI naahI.
BaaXaocao baÜlaXaIla tr AapNa Garabaahor pDlaÜ kI english Ê ihMdIÊ minglish BaaYaaMXaI saMbaMQa yaotÜ. to pNa Ô> mauMba saar#yaa mahanagaratUna AÝrMgaabaadÊ naaMdoDÊ naagapUr
yaa saar#yaa maÜqyaa Xahrat AjaunaiBa Gart Aina Garbahor maraqaI BaaXaocaaca 90 laÜk vaapr krtat.
XaovaTI AaharÊ pÜYaKÊ BaaYaaÊ jaatIvyavasqaa (a sava- gaÜXTI eKaVa ivaiXasqa saMsaÌtIcaa AivaBaajya Baaga
Asatat. yaa sava- AaiNa yaa saar#yaa minor gaÜYTI imaLUna eksaMQa saMsaÌtI tyaar hÜto. %yaa %yaa gaÜYTI Ô> saMsaÌtItlaa AapaAplaa role pUNa- krt Asatt.
eka ivaiXaYT pwtIcao jaovaNaKaNaÊ rahNaImaanaÊ BaaYaaÊ jaat yaa gaÜYTI %yaa%yaa saMsaÌtIcyaa inado-Xak
Asatt. %yaamauLo eKadI saMsaÌtI layaalaa najanyaasazI svajaatIcaaÊ svaQamaa-caaÊ svaBaaYaocaa Asaa
jaÜdIdar AavaXyak AstÜ. karNa Xaovait lagnaacaa ]_oXa ha p`jaÜ%padna kÉna AaplaI saMsaÌtI puQao naoNao
Asaa Aaho. jar AavaDIla iBaÙa saMsaÌtIcao AsatIla tr maulao na@kI kÜNtI saMsaÌtI puQao naoNaarÆ %yaaMcaI
Avasqaa naa Gar ka naa GaaT ka AXaI hÜ[la AaiNa pyaa-yaanao AXyaa ipiQacao palak jyaa vaogavaogaL\yaa
pXva-BaUmaIcao Aahot AXyaa kÜNa%yaaca saMsaÌtIcyaa ]%kYaa-laa hI maulao krNaIBaUt nasaNar.
%yaamauLo eKaVa saMsaÌtIcyaa savaa-MgaINa ivakasaasaaqaI jaÜdIdar ha svapXva-BaUmaIca Asanao A%yaavaXak
Aaho.
This is my first try for writing in devnagari so please consider the XauwlaoKnaacyaa caUka .
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Dalchini,
namaskarÊ ihtgaujavar AaplaM svaagat Aaho. ihtgaujatfo- AapNaaMsa ha puYpgaucC ²
ihtgaujavarcyaa sava- ivaBaagaaMnaa AvaXya BaoT Va
AapNaaMsa kahI ADcaNa Asaola tr [qao ivacaa$ Xakta...
I need help
dovanaagarIt ilaihNyaasaMbaMQaI maaihtI [qao imaLola...
How to write in Devnagari
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Rshubha
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| | Sunday, December 22, 2002 - 6:16 pm: |
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tuJao mhNaNao barÜbar Aaho. AaplaI ivavaahsaMsqaa hI AaplaI jaatIsaMsqaa iTkUna rahNyaasa karNaIBaUt Aaho.
AaiNa maga ho kuzpya-Mt jaato ? jaaitsaMsqaa mhTlaI kI Aaplyaalaa manau AazvatÜ. pNa manausmaRtIthI caar vaNaa-Mcaa ]llaoK Aaho. Aaja
AapNa nausato ba`a*maNa mhNauna qaaMbat naahIÊ tr doXasqa kI kÜkNasqaÊ ?gvaodI kI yajauvao-dIÂ 96 kuLI
marazo nausato maaLI navho tr fUlamaaLI Asao pÜTBaod krtÜ.
yaatUna maga Aamacyaa samaajaat Amauk Amauk krt naahItÊ jasao kI ivaQavaa ivavaahÊ kaDImaÜDÊ iXaxaNa vagaOro
yaa ÉZI baLkT hÜtat.
Aaja samaajaalaa kXaacaI garja Aaho ? jaatI saMsqaa iTkuna rahNyaacaI ? dÜna iBaÙa communities maQalyaa jaÜiDdaraMcaI maulao " naa Gar ka naa GaaT ka " hÜNyaaeovajaI dÜnhI samaajaacaI GaTk banatIla. to be more practical Ê AaplaI iptRsa<aak pwtI maulaalaa Aaplyaa Garcao vaLNa laavaNyaacaI dxata Gao[la. 
hoca logic qaÜDo TÜkalaa naolao tr samajaa ihndu maulaaMnaI mauislama maulaIMXaI lagnao kolaI tr mauislama maulaaMnaa
AiQak competitive hÜNao Baaga pDola. maga to muslim personal law ba_la AiQak gaaMiBayaa-nao ivacaar krtIla.
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Dalchini
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| | Sunday, December 22, 2002 - 7:20 pm: |
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iktI mauislama laÜksamaaja Aaplyaa maulaIlaa ihMdU maulaaXaI lagna k$ dotatÆ ]laT ihca gaÜXT Agaid ivaÉw
iritnao sara-sa GaDtoÊ means mauislama maulagaa AaiNa ihMdU maulagaIÊ ica~pTsaRsaÁTItIla GatnaaMva$na ho AgadI sahja idsaUna yaoto.
Where the mother is muslim and father is a Hindu in that case children does not look the brighter side of Hindu community. Rather they proved to be harmful to entire Indian community, for instance say - Sanjay Datt. All other past and present khans have got married to a Hindu girls, How many muslim heroins has married to Hindu heroes.
I am just indicating the instance of Movie-world cause everybody is aware of the happenings there.
Though looking particularly in the sub-caste while marrying is totally depending on the personal crieteria for the marriage. Now a days we often see boys/girls from brahmin caste ready to marry ckp/martha/or even from "bara balutedaar" castes coz their priorities are different. They want well-educated software professional girl or boy only who will earn as much dollors as spous is earning so they keep aside the caste system.
I have seen one leva-patil boy getting married to a south Indian girl b'coz in leva-patil caste they do not get highly educated software prof. girl so that boy's parents only has went to marriage bureau and selected the south-indian girl for their boy and so is the case with girls parents.
so this type of the population does not bother about caste/language/sub-caste b'coz their priorities are different.
But, Inter-religious arranged marriage is yet a long way to go. Unknowingly, by birth we follows particular ways of life which any religion provides for.
malaa KUp kahI saaMgaayacao hÜto AaiNa minglish ikMvaa caUikcyaa dovanaagarIt ilaihNyaapoxaa maI english caa AaQaar Gaotlaa %yaaba_la xamasva.Á
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Rshubha
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| | Sunday, December 22, 2002 - 10:46 pm: |
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qaÜD vaoL " Asao GaDU Xakola ka ?" ho baajaulaa zova. AaiNa Asao GaDlao tr %yaat na@kI kaya vaaT AaiNa kaya caaMgalao to saaMga. Aqaa-t
maI gaRiht Qartoya kI hI AgadI 100 % black & white pirisqatI naahI.
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caaMgalaa ivaYaya hataLt Aahosa RShubha ² AsaÜÊ kovaL Baartacaa ivacaar kolaa tr yaoqao ivaivaQa p`aMt AsaUna p`%yaokacyaa ivaiXaYT caalaIrIit
AahotÊ jyaaMnaa AapNa p`aMtIya saMsaÌtI mhNaU. tr p`%yaok p`aMtacaI AaiNa %yaatlyaa laÜkaMcaI ivaiXaYT
jaIvanapwtI AahoÊ rhaNaImaana AahoÊ svaBaavavaOiXaYT\yao Aahot. ]da. ga,ujaraqaI maaNasaat saOnyaat jaaNyaacaI
AÜZ nasatoÊ tr marazI maaNasaat QaMVacaI ³Apvaad Aahotca´. p`%yaokacyaa GaratIla vaatavarNa AaiNa %yaatUna
hÜNaaro saMskar tsaoca ho p`aMitk ³Qaaima-k´ saMskar imaLUna maaNasaaMcao ivacaarÊ dRYTIkÜna tyaar hÜtat.
(atUna nakLt Aaplyaa jaÜDIdaraivaYayaI klpnaa manaatlyaa kÜpáyaat spYT hÜt jaatat. Aaplyaalaa puZo ksaa
jaÜDIdar hvaa Aaho ho zrvatanaa baáyaacap`maaNaat svatbarÜbar Aaplyaa GaratlyaaMcaa AaiNa Aajaubaajaucyaa
vaatavarNaacaa ivacaar kolaa jaatÜca. ]da. kÜNaIhI marazI vya>I ]zUna ekdma mad`asaI jaÜDIdar XaÜQat
ifrt naahI.. Asao kahI Asaolaca tr eka samaajaapasaUna dUr jaaNyaacaI AÜZ ³jaacak rItIMnaa kMTaLUna´ ikMvaa
[tr samaaja ikMvaa vya>I ivaYayaI vaaTNaarI AÜZ (apOkIca AsaU Xakola. saaMgaayacaa mau_a evaZaca kI
jar tumhI jaÜiDdaraivaYayaI naIT defined nasaala tr barocavaoLa prp`aMtIya tsaoca prQamaI-ya ivavaah AyaXasvaI zÉ Xaktat. yaa]laT tumhalaa tumhI
kaya krt AahatÊ tumhala AatUna ³GaratUna´ AaiNa baaho$na³samaajaatUna´ iktI samaqa-na Aaho (acaa saarasaar
ivacaar kÉna prp`MtIya jaÜDIdar inavaDlaat tr jaast AanaMddayaI AayauYya jagaU Xakala ³]da. XaÜBaa Do
itcyaa dRYTIkÜnaatUna²´
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Arch
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 3:28 am: |
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XauBaaMgaI maaJa AaMtrjaatIya lagna Jaala Aaho. AaiNa maaJyaa Aa%yaaMcaIhI AaMtrjaatIya lagna JaalaI Aahot.
maI tulaa jara XabdaMcaI vyavasqaIt jauLvaajauLvaI k$na laÝkrca ilahIna
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Dalchini
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 5:18 am: |
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well thats good arch, coz I have no experience towards the same neither my near relatives. we would like to hear from you.
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maaJaahI Antjaa-tIya AaNaI qaÜD\yaa p`maaNaat Antr p`antIya ivavaah Aaho.
gammat mhnjao malaa lahanapNaIpasaUna arranged ivavaahcaI AavaD hÜtI AaNaI jaaiti%la maulgaI kraycaI Asaa inaXcaya hÜta. Áyaa gaÜYTIt Garcyaanca mat
kaya hva to kr Asaca hÜt.
AjaUna kaya ilahU saucat naahI. kÜNaI kahI mau_o maaND\lyaavar ilahona.
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Keya
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 5:09 pm: |
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maaJaohI lagna AaMtrjaatIya AaiNa qaÜDasao AaMtrp`aMitya. maaJyaa AnauBavaavaÉna trI Asao vaaTto Asao
ivavaah jar dÜGao navarabaayakÜ KMbaIr Asalao tr yaXasvaI hÜ] Xaktat. maaJaohI AnauBava Xabd\baQd kÉna
saaMgaona.
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Rshubha
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 5:23 pm: |
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jaÜDIdar vaogavaogaL\yaa samaajaatIla AsaNyaacaa malaa ek fayada idsatÜ tÜ Asaa :
ho jaÜDIdar iBaÙa pUva-ga`h Gao]na yaotIla. %yaamauLo %yaaMnaa inadana kahI pUva-ga`haMbaabat p`Xna pDU
XaktIla. %yaamauLo %yaavar saaQakbaaQak cacaa- hÜ]na to %yaatIla yaÜgya gaÜYTI zovauna AyaÜgya gaÜYTIMcaa
%yaaga k$ XaktIla.
³maI AadXa-vaadI Aaho ka Æ ]<ar hÜkaraqaI-. jaunyaa ihtgaujavaaisayaaMnaa ho maahIt Aahoca. naivana
saBaasadaMsaazI hI maaihtI. ´
¤KalaIla pircCodaitla majakur Aaxaopah- vaaTlyaasa navara / baayakÜÊ Aa / vaiDlaÊ AajaI / AajaÜbaa yaa XabdaMcaI ]laTapalaT kravaI. Asao k$nahI tÜ KTkt Asaola tr kuTuMbaatIla eka vya>Inao dusayaa-
vyai>laaÊ tuJyaa maagaIla dÜna ipZ\yaatIla vya>IMnao Asaa Xabdp`yaÜga krNyaasa hrkt naahI ³klpnaa
: Baaritya vaR<ap~aMvar AaQaairt ´¥
Asao Qa$na caalaU yaa kI yaa samaajaat navaáyaanao bayakÜlaa maarNao vaavagao samajalao jaat naahI. samajaaÊ
dÜnhI jaÜiDdar yaaca samaajaatIla AsatIla tr baayakÜ ho maanya krolaÊ ikMvaa itlaa tuJyaa AajaInao Asaa
maar Kallaa Aaho AaiNa AanaohI Kallaa Aaho Asao saaMgaUna gaPp krta yaola. pna baayakÜ dusayaa- samaajaatIla
Asao ijaqao hI p`qaa naahIÊ tr tI yaa gaÜYTIcyaa yaÜgyaayaÜgyatoba_la ivacaar krola AaiNa itlaa pTNaaro
]<ar doNyaasaazI qaÜDa ivacaarhI kravaa laagaola.
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Dalchini
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 5:32 pm: |
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jaÜ navara baayakÜlaa maarhaNa krtÜÊ %yaalaa baayakÜlaa karNaM doNyaa[tkI A@kla AaiNa sadsadivavaokbauwI
AsatI tr %yaanao baayakÜlaa maarlao Asato kaÆ
pTNyaasaarKo dusaro eKado ]dahrNa do.
BTW, " sadsadivavaokbauwI " (a Xabdat pihlyaa d caa paya ksaa maÜDayacaaÆ
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dalaicanaIÊ pihlyaa d caa paya Asaa maÜDayacaa
\ts1{sad.hsad.hviveka} : sad\sad\ivavaok
dusaáyaa d caa pNa paya tsaaca maÜDtat
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Dalchini
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 6:12 pm: |
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thanks madat samiti for addtional infor about dusara " d "
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Rshubha
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 6:36 pm: |
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sorry, navaáyaalaa A@kla Asato ho maaJyaa laxaatca Aalao navhto. malaa f> baayakÜlaa ha p`Xna pDU XaktÜ ³kQaI
kQaI´ hoca Aazvalao
OK rDU nakÜsa. ho Gao dusaro ]dahrNa. samajaÊ ihndU maulaanao mauislama maulaIXaI lagna kolao. maga tÜ itla
baurKa GaalaayacaI garja naahI. nausato laala kuMkU laavalao trI itlaa Apoixat saMrxaNa imaLU Xakto ho
pTvaUna do] Xakola.
AsaÜÊ ho ivaYayaaMtr Jaalao. maMDLIÊ Aata punha gaMBaIrpNao cacaa- krayalaa hrkt naahI
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Upas
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 6:52 pm: |
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jar BB chya shevati Parprantiya Jodiar asane changale ase conclustion nighale tar Marathi Tarunananchi MaayBoli var ghor nirasha hoil bahutek.. ~d ~d
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Asami
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 7:03 pm: |
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jaÜDIdar vaogavaogaL\yaa samaajaatIla AsaNyaacaa malaa ek tÜTa idsatÜ tÜ Asaa :
ho jaÜDIdar iBaÙa pUva-ga`h Gao]na yaotIla. %yaamauLo kahI gaÜiYTMmaQao %yaavar ego cyaa mau_\yaava$na vaad hÜ} XaktIla. dÜGaaMpOkI kÜNaIca samaMjasa nasaola tr to (a naa%yaacaaca %yaaga
k$ XaktIla.
³maI XabdCla krt Aaho ka Æ ]<ar hÜkaraqaI-. jaunyaa ihtgaujavaaisayaaMnaa ho maahIt Aahoca. naivana
saBaasadaMsaazI hI maaihtI. ´
qaÜD@yaat BB cyaa maqaL\yaamaQao maaMDlaolyaa p`Xnaacao hÜ Aqavaa naahI Asao zama ]<ar doNao kzINa Aaho. vya>Icyaa
p`aQaanyaanausaar ho badlaola. dOnaMidna AayauYyaamaQao jyaa kahI CÜT\yaaXaa GaTnaa GaDt AsatatÊ jyaalaa
AapNa dInaËma mhNat AsatÜ AXaa GaTnaaMmaQao kahI notions? Asatat. kahI gaÜYTI AQyaahu-t Qarlaolyaa Asatat. AXaa assume kolaolyaa gaÜiYTMsaazI ekaca background maQaUna Aalaolao saaqaIdaraMnaa ÔarXaa tDjaÜDI kravyaa lagat naahI. kahI vaYaa-MpUvaI-cyaa samaajpwitkDo
laxa idlaa tr kLola kI AXaI saamaaiyak paXva-BaUmaI AsaNao ho caste system maULo Xa@ya hÜto AaNaI %yaa AnauXaaMgaanaoca hI p`qaa pDlaI Asaola.
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Prafull
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 7:22 pm: |
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Getting adjusted to each others' family members is always a big issue in any marriage and in inter religious/caste marriages it can play havoc if any one partner/his/her/family members are not comfortable (The chances of which are more than a traditional marriage)
For an eg. imagine a south indian female (who doesnt know hindi) marries to marathi boy whose mother doesnt know anything but hindi/marathi. Lack of communication will surely cause trouble and poor guy will become another case of sandwich.
So, I will say that if you are going for an arranged marriage look for someone from your own culture/background. In love marriage one really doesnt have any choice but to accept the package that comes along with your lover. But get ready for rock n roll that might start very soooon
(PS. This is a view, No personal experience involved)
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Juilee
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 8:48 pm: |
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svajaatIya ivavaahamaQao tDjaÜDI kravyaa laagat naahIt kaÆ eka maharaYT/amaQao ivaivaQa ivaBaagaatlyaa
laÜkaMcyaat saMsaÌtI badlatanaa idsato. ]da mauMbacaI maulagaI AaiNa maraz\vaaD\yaatIla saasar. lagnaanaMtr
p`%yaok maulaIlaa qaÜDoÔar badlaavao laagat AsaNaar AaiNa p`%yaok maulaalaahI.
maaJyaa eka maO~INaInao prp`aMtIya maulaaXaI mau_ama lagna kolao. tI jyaa jaatItlaI Aaho %yaa jaatIt AjaUnahI
maulaIMnaa jaast iXaku dot naahIt. [tkI jaast iXaklaolaI maulagaI mhNaUna nakar doNaarI laÜk itnao baGaItlaI
hÜtI. %yaamauLo itnao AitXaya ivacaarpuva-k p`omaivavaah kolaa. AaiNa Aaja tI itcyaa jaatIt Êp`aMtat lagna
k$na jaovhZI sauKI JaalaI AsatI %yaacyaa iktItrI pT Aaja sauKI Aaho
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Dalchini
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 9:49 pm: |
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tocaÊ XaovaTI p`%yaok vya>Icyaa p`aQaanyaËmaavar AaMtrjaÜDIdar krayacaa ka naahI to AvalaMbaUna Aaho.
tumhalaa kÜNa%yaa mayaa-dopya-Mt tDjaÜDI krayacyaa Aahot - %yaa tDjaÜDIcyaa AnauYaMgaanao hÜNaaáyaa ÔayaVasazI - ho vya>Isaapoxa Asato. kÜNaalaa AaMtrpÜTjaatIya lagnaacaI tDjaÜD pNa nakÜ Asaola AaiNa kÜNaalaa AaMtrpÜTjaatIya
ha lagnaacyaa baabatIt AgadI gaÝNa ikMvaa nagaNya maud\da AsaU XaktÜ.
inavvaL AaMtr - ivavaahacao ÔayaVa - tÜT\yaaMcaI cacaa- k$na samaajaacao mat badlaNaar naahI karNa XaovaTI p`%yaokacaa AnauBava hI mah%vaacaa.
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Chafa
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| | Monday, December 23, 2002 - 9:53 pm: |
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AgadI barÜbar. XaovaTI ekMdr sava- pÜsTsa vaacata haca inaYkYa- inaGatÜ kI p`aQaanya idlaM jaa} nayaoÊ
pNa svajaatIt ivavaah krNaM na@kIca saÜpM pDola. But that does not mean, depending upon the circumstances, that otherwise is not true.
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Zakki
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 2:03 am: |
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dailcanaIÊ ³kI dalaicanaIÆ´ sadsad\ivavaokbauwI maQalyaa pihlyaa d caa paya maÜDayacaa nasatÜ. dusaáyaa
d caa maÜDayacaa AsatÜ. karNaÊ sad\ AiQak Asad\ ³sad\ mhNajao sa%ya AaiNa Asad\ mhNajao Asa%ya´
kolao kI pihlaa d pUNa- hÜtÜ ina dusara tsaaca maÜDka rhatÜ.
RshubhA laa iva. saU.Á maI pNa ek navara Aaho.
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Maitreyee
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 3:17 am: |
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Aata maaJyaavar sagaL\yaaMnaI hllaa k$ naka Ê pNa malaa Asao vaaTto ha p`Xna jaast k$na maulaIMnaa pDtÜÊ
karNa lagna k$na itlaa saasarI jaayacaM AsatÊ pUNa-pNao navyaa GaratÊ navyaa vaatavarNaat adjust vhayaca AsatM. yaat jaatÊ p`aMtÊ Qama- yaacaa ivacaar evaZ\yaaca karNaanao hÜtÜ kI %yaa maulaIlaa ³vaa
maulaalaa Asao mhNaa hvao tr´ jaÜiDdarabarÜbar %yaa GaratÊ kuTuMbaat puZcao AayauYya vyatIt krNyaa [tko
confortable vaaTto / vaaTola kI naahI. AaiNa ho barocasao vya>Isaapoxa Aaho. pNa sava-ca jaNa kahI naa kahI samaana Qaagaa
XaÜQatat ho na@kI.kuNaalaa jaatItÊ pÜTjaatItlao kuTuMba Aaplaosao vaaTola tr kuNaI³]da. prdoXaat vaaZlaolaI
ipZI´ tÜ / tI BaartIya AsalyaaXaI karNa Asaa ivacaar krola.
qaÜD@yaat kaya tr AaMtrjaatIya ivavaah kahI Asao ivavaah krNao hI kaLacaI garja Aaho ...vagaOro vagaOro
Asao zrvaUna hÜt naahIt ³hÜ] nayaot´ tr jaÜiDdaracao Aacaar - ivacaarÊ kuTuMbaatlao vaatavarNa sagaLo pTlao tr hÜtIla / hÜtat.
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Rshubha
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 4:41 am: |
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jar jaÜDIdaracao AacaarivacaarÊ kuTuMbaatlao vaatavarNa jauLlaoÊ pNa jaat naahI jauLlaI tr kaya ?
maI ha p`Xna ivacaarto Aaho karNa jaat ha pihlaa filter AsatÜ. %yaamauLo Aacaarivacaar pya-Mt gaÜYT pÜhÜcaNaarca naahI.
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Wakdya
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 5:43 am: |
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Rshubha Ôarca p`qaimak p`XNa ivacaarlaa ² ~D
AhÜ puiZlap`maanao baGaa
1. AaMtr pÜT jaatIya ³mhNajao doba`a kÜba`a´
2. AaMtr p`aMitya pNa sajaatIya ³jasao kI knaa-TkI kÜba` vaQaU ina puNaorI kÜba`a var´
3. AaMtr p`aMitya pNa ivajaaitya
4. p`aMitya pNa sajaaitya ³mhNajao pMcaËÜiXatlaa naahI´
5. p`aMitya ina ivajaaitya ³jasao kI ba`a*maNa - maraza ina [tr Anaok p`karo´
6. varIla sava- p`kar saÜbat iBaÙ BaaiYak
7. varIla sava- p`kar saÜbat iBaÙ Aaiqa-k isqatI
8. varIla sava- p`kar saÜbat iBaÙ XaOxaiNak sqaItI
9. varIla sava- p`karÊ ]pp`kar ina AaMtr QamaI-ya
10. varIla sava- p`karÊ %yaaMcao ]pp`kar ina AaMtrdoXaIya
11. varIla sava- p`karÊ ]pp`karÊ AaMtrdoiXaya saÜbat AaMtrQaima-ya..
baapro..
kovhDa ha saavaLa gaÜMQaL.. ..
kaya hÜ iktI T@ko vya>I AXaI caakÜrI baahorcaI vaaT caÜKaLt AsatIlaÆ AaiNa AXaI vaaT caÜKaLNaaro saQyaa
kÜNa%yaa samaajaatuna AahotÆ kÜNa%yaa izkaNaahUna AahotÆ
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Rshubha
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 3:09 pm: |
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jyaa gaavaalaa jaayacao naahIÊ %yaacaI vaaT ivacaa$ nayao mhNatat. tumacyaa saazI " ibakT vaaT vahIvaaT nasaavaIÊ QaÜpT maagaa- saÜDU nakÜ " hoca zIk Aaho
kI " hmasafr " kÜNa Aaho yaacaI caacapNaI caalaU Aaho ?
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Dalchini
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 3:18 pm: |
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sagaLo kahI jauLlao pNa jaat naahI jauLlaI tr kayaÆ ho %yaa %yaa vya>Ivar AvalaMbaUna Aaho.
Jai@kÊ maaga-dXa-naaba_la AaBaarI Aaho. AaiNa " dalaicanaI " barÜbar Aaho
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Abedekar
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| | Tuesday, December 24, 2002 - 4:20 pm: |
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imagine a south indian female (who doesnt know hindi) marries to marathi boy whose mother doesnt know anything but hindi/marathi. >>>>>> i.e. mad`aXaInao kolaa marzI Ba`tar - vasant bapat sorry for the TP , could not resist ...
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Rujutaaa
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| | Saturday, December 28, 2002 - 6:36 am: |
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dÜna KUp caaMgalaI ]dahrNao Aahot maJyaa baGaNyaat.. jyaaMcao Aantjaa-tIya ivavaah Jaalaolao Aahot. dÜnhIhI
kuTumbao AitXaya sauKI Aahot. ³Asao %yaaMcao mhNaNao Aaho.´ eka family ivaXayaI ivaXaoXa saaMgaayacao mhNajao Mr XYX ³naava Gaot naahI.´ maharaXT/Iyana ba`amhNa Aahot. AgadI do. É. ba`a. AaNaI Mrs XYZ mausalamaana Aahot. Ajaunaih %yaaM Aaplaa Qama- badlaolaa naaihyao. %yaa naamavaMt laoiKka Aahot. mauislama
maihlaaMsaazI kama krtat. pNa dÜGaohI AitXaya samaMjasa Aahot. dÜGaohI ekmaokaMcyaa Qamaa-caaÊ kamaacaa
Aadr krtat. AaNaI %yaaMcyaa mauilalaahI %yaanaI AitXaya caaMgalyaa saMskarat vaaZvalao Aaho. AanaI maI
[t@yaa AiQakaranao saangaayacao karNa %yaanaa maI AgadI javaLUna baGaItlaola Aaho. I feel positive abt such marriages.
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Kaukhan
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| | Tuesday, December 31, 2002 - 9:56 am: |
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I have seen several inter-caste (incl. myself), one inter-region (my sister) and one inter-religion (my aunt) marriage in my family. My friend's uncle has married an american lady. All the marriages are rocking and rolling (read "going great").
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great discussion topic-shubha...i happen to agree with you..to break down the barriers of caste system..such marriages are essential..
of course depending on the situation these marriages may (or may not) need some level of adjustment because of the caste factor..whether to accept that risk depends on what incentives you have..e.g.if you really really like a person in all other respects..then caste shouldn't matter..in fcat it is better that more inter-caste marriages take place..
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